The Playboy-Instagram standard has infected most of us (including myself), but these norms evolve.. just look at Parisian postcards from a century ago or even fashion pics from the 1930s. I see women of all shapes and sizes getting success in the vanilla, pro and sugar world, and there does seem to be a BBW niche. There are other quirks and kinks -- some guys don't care about anything except big tits or booty.. or getting services like anal or whatever. If you think about evolution, these gals would disappear if there weren't a market for them.. keep looking.
I'm amazed how many obese and unattractive POTSB there are thinking they're hot and that there is a market for them. I'm 66yo and know I'm delusional but I'd guess roughly 80% of the ladies on SA or SB I wouldn't fuck for free much less pay for it. Just sayin.
I have a female friend who is overweight. She is 27, has a pretty face, is physically active and has no trouble meeting people and engaging them in conversation. She was married to a skinny guy for 5 years and dumped him when she caught him stealing her pre-marriage money.
She started using Seeking about a year after the divorce, while living in NY. Over the next 2 years she had at least 3 SD's. I don't know if they were sequential or concurrent. But she had no problem finding guys on the site who would enter into an arrangement with her. In addition, since she had married young at 18 and had never been a frequent dater then, she decided to explore her "opportunity" dating experiences at various bars and clubs. She got laid - a lot.
Now she is back in LA and is still using the site. I don't really have specific data from her - I don't ask and she does not volunteer. But she is still getting dates and allowance.
So is she delusional? I don't think so. But I acknowledge that she may be the corner case in so-called "BBW" POTs. She knows I use the site - we have seen each other's profiles. But we don't go there. And like you imply I do see POT's every day that I can't imagine dating because they are not attractive to me. But I am the only guy using my dick to decide who I date.
The Playboy-Instagram standard has infected most of us (including myself), but these norms evolve.. just look at Parisian postcards from a century ago or even fashion pics from the 1930s. I see women of all shapes and sizes getting success in the vanilla, pro and sugar world, and there does seem to be a BBW niche. There are other quirks and kinks -- some guys don't care about anything except big tits or booty.. or getting services like anal or whatever. If you think about evolution, these gals would disappear if there weren't a market for them.. keep looking.
The sad part about Seeking is there is around a 4:1 ratio of active men to women. Typical, average girl can easily garner 50 interested POTs...us older gentlemen less likely to get 10. Even a piggy will get a lot more responses than you might think possible.
Not just variety in peoples looks but in their tastes. If we all wanted the same kind of girl we'd mostly be out of luck. I def see many POTs who do not interest me, so I move on. But somebody out there will think they are just great, so more power to them! And the reverse is true too: I know many girls would never consider dating a guy as old as me. but a few do! Gotta love the variety!
Mired in a bad situation of my own making, I was inspired by an Arliss episode to look for a slump buster on SA last week. BBW but pretty face is how I'd describe the person I met up with. I bet there are other SDs who target BBWs thinking it's less work than an attractive SB. BBW SB's can't be blamed for thinking they are in demand because...they are in demand.
Delusional SBs are those who ask for PPM for a M&G because "okay i asked for ppm because id have to figure out a time id be able to come out that's why! currently very busy today which i didnt expect but i have a couple things going on that i have to be out doing"
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