We do try to get SBs to get their shit together.  And sometimes, they do.  But sometimes, they are just so fucked in the head there's nothing we can do.  And we are crossing lines when we try.

I've vented about my psycho ex SB who stole from me, was married and was escorting on the side.  It's been over two years since I've talked to her.

In the last two years, she tried using me saying I cost her income from her career.  In the conference with the attorney, her lawyer dropped her realizing I was going to win.  The lawyer thought she could get a quick settlement and take 1/3rd.  Once I informed her of her clients past activities in prostitution and that she actually had no income from the career was claiming damages from it ended and I haven't heard a peep since.

I had to move last year because she started showing up at my house again.  Poking around and probably trying to break in.  Sure, could wait and have her arrested but then I have to deal with my house getting ransacked.

The other day I was trolling FetLife.  I've spent some time on it but never met anyone.  Seems to be full of scams.  I saw her profile.  She was filming herself selling tricks at a truck stop trying to make money off porn. So now she's taking it raw from random truckers and letting them nut in her for $100.

At first. I was really upset.  I tried to get her out of this situation. Even offered to pay for her to go back to school and move away from her pimp.  The guy who I thought was only a friend of hers, not a roommate, sex partner and pimp.  I then offered to take her to her family out of state so she could start over.  After all that, she's now the lowest of low when it comes to sex work.

Now, I am relieved.  Knowing I was absolutely right in wanting her out of there.  Even though she didn't take my help and robbed me after.  All the doubt that she is just a lost cause brings me peace.