I think you have to want a different kind of experience than the pro world offers and if you do, invest some time and money. It would be hard IMO if you are in a committed relationship.
Yes it's possible to get semi-pro and pro girls and a GFE session on Seeking but I think many/most girls want something more.. they want a kind of relationship that gives you good BCD time but also other stuff.. not meeting the parents or going to graduations but having dinner, going on trips, etc. If it's just pure sex, the escort world is a lot less complicated, I agree. This is a different ballgame.
...is now over. Here's a quick summary (and you'll see why I did not renew). I messaged about 20 POTs, got responses from a fair number -- about 10. One - a true 9 in looks, 20 yr old AA -- turned into a massive bait and switch -- after a great two hour meet and greet, she flaked (see "sob story" thread below). Another was really sweet -- we met and everything was great. Then she never disappeared on seeking and did not return texts. She was probably an 8 on face, 6 on body. A third was an easy meet and fun hour BCD but she lives 40 miles away and I dont want to drive there or pay the $100 uber plus hotel plus fee, which just makes it too expensive. Met a fourth -- *beautiful* face 9.5, and a 6-7 body, very sweet and smart, but she wanted (a) an arrangement rather than PPM and with my schedule that probably wouldn't work too well, and (b) $3,000 per month, which was way too much. I thought I had another POT on the line, after some texting (a whole lot over a 30 minute period back and forth), but then she ghosted me (she has been back on the site, though, just hasn't responded). Finally, on the last day of the month, I got a response from someone I had messaged earlier. That had potential, but she it turns out that she is married (but looking) and I really don't want to go there. Last thing I need is some guy out to get me. So, it was fun. I am glad I tried. (I still on SB, but she is at college right now.) But back to escorts for me. I do love this board, though, so keep the stories coming!
It honestly took me a couple of months to get into the SD/SB experience - learning the site, tweaking my profile, fine tuning my search parameters, both good and bad experiences, etc. If your serious about it, I think anyone that has had success with it would encourage you to invest more time and energy into the bowl before you walk away. . And least for me, the rewards have far exceeded my pro experiences. I previously had a standing Sat night date with my (pro) ATF. She was overly generous with her time and we experienced many great dates both BCD and not. It went on for over a year. Looking back however, it was all not much compared to my SB experiences. When you factor in the time a SB is willing to spend with you, the economics are bargain basement compared to the you-need-to-pay-me-by-the-hour ladies. It's not even a comparison. Good luck.
I'll only say two things: 1. It's a numbers game. Messaging 20 POTs is a anemic start. Let us know how is goes/went when you reach 100.
2. Ebb and flow. I have...more or less 6 lovely ladies in my little covey. A few months before, I had maybe one POT. I have no concept why it works like this, but you will be making a mistake if you stop out now. Yes, SA sucks...and to be honest, when my female supply dwindles, I probably won't pursue it anymore...but that's another story.
I think you have to want a different kind of experience than the pro world offers and if you do, invest some time and money. It would be hard IMO if you are in a committed relationship.
Yes it's possible to get semi-pro and pro girls and a GFE session on Seeking but I think many/most girls want something more.. they want a kind of relationship that gives you good BCD time but also other stuff.. not meeting the parents or going to graduations but having dinner, going on trips, etc.
If it's just pure sex, the escort world is a lot less complicated, I agree. This is a different ballgame.
All the above advice is right on the money. The "numbers game" aspect of sugar dating takes on even more significance as you get older. It's a miraculous truth that there are women out there who truly enjoy, even prefer, the intimate companionship of a man way older than themselves. I would know, as I'm about to turn 75! But these women are few, so contacting many is the only way to find those few. I assume you are much younger than I am, so there's going to be many more excellent potential candidates for you to connect with. You will need to refine your game as a SD. But it's still and always a numbers game. Messaging 20 is simply not enough.
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