This is a story of my first and only SB before the recent foray Into SA and SB. I found her in 2012 working as a pro for Kim’s Belle de Jour agency that operates in many cities including Nyc and Long Island. Mid20s Jewish blond, 8 in looks, full B cup PAWG , petite but too curvy to be a spinner.  

After our one and only mediocre session as a “pro,” (which I reviewed on TER), we got to talking and she confessed that she was a civvie and just got into providing because of sudden $ troubles. Usually a sympathy spiel but it was probably true in this case. Anyway, it turned into a weekly SB arrangement though I made up the rules without this Board to guide me. We set the stage with a nice M&G at Le Colonial (second floor) to set the arrangement and then a session at the Millenium hotel. No surprise, her SB sex was significantly better than her “pro” sex. (Of course we got tested and i was partaking in BBFS and Greek.) She got an allowance, occasional small gifts like chocolates for one V-day, she came to my place in Manhattan, I went to her place in Jersey, blah blah.

The point is She was interested in business as a career change so we talked about different careers. Over the next few years the allowance and BCD time got smaller and the mentoring and friendship got stronger. I coached her on job interviews. I was very ok with that as I was in a LT relationship and frankly she was putting on some weight in her early 30s and becoming. Anyway, we lost track of each other when I left New York except for the occasional email. Five years later two years ago, she hits me up on LinkedIn with a good job as a junior recruiter for a boutique firm in the financial services. industry. I accepted her LinkedIn invite just last week lol- I lost a ho but gained a friend lol

No arrangement lasts forever. Sadly too many end badly. But sometimes, as with your former SB, the story ends well.  You helped her achieve her career goals, and that doesn't happen often enough. Not because most SD's are not sincere in their desire (and skillset) to help his SB, but because many SB's never really want real mentoring.  So you met someone cool, had lost of great sex, and you paid it forward by helping a young person develop her career.  That's a win-win.  

 
Nicely done, Sir.

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

I think she's still around. I met her at a M&G and she practically vibrated -- and not in a good way. She was kind of dysfunctional but she did have some really good girls. Also at that M&G was the couple who ran an agency named for the Greek version of Venus (sorry for the code but that agency can't be named). They were busted no long after that.
Great times, though. I'm sure you know who I mean.

Kim I never meet in person but spoke with her when the agency girls were like a second home for awhile. M

She was a decent madam or used to b (reviews gone downhill dramatically of late).  

Once a hot Czech girl of their got up and left 25 min into an hour appointment. i complained to Kim, who made her come back to do it right.

inicky46, Did you mean to post this here?  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

At his age, much of the time he barely knows who he is, much less where. lol

 
Like many other people his age with dementia he can remember shit that happened years ago, but can't remember shit from five minutes ago. Before I stopped talking to him, I thought he was just being an argumentative douche bag when he would deny things that he had written only five minutes before, but now I have come to realize that it isn't an act and it isn't a lie, he simply can't remember things that happened only a few minutes or hours ago. Poor BFSF, a mind truly is a terrible thing to waste. lol

Life is good

 
The Cat