This has been an issue with some pots lately.  They want it to be an hour or less.  Basically escort experience.  But somehow still want to meet for coffee, maybe go out to eat or get a drink.  But get upset when I expect a few hours together.  

Had a date planned for today, meet at 10:30 for coffee then time alone.  But just told me she has a meeting for work at noon.

It's a 45 minute drive for her ....  But still wants $400.

So, I offered for her to use the wifi at the shag pad.  We can have some fun. She can get ready, then more fun after.  I'll work while she's in her zoom.  

She realized her timeline wouldn't have worked and agreed.  So I should get paid twice.  She will leave around 2.  I'll finish my work day.  Both of us are happy.

Before COVID, most of the SBs I met did not mention time at all. I could stay for as long as I wanted. We could fuck for several hours until I couldn't get it up anymore. Now, lots of them will say they have to go somewhere after not even two hours. I am getting old, so I can't stay hard for as long as before. But still, I would like to cuddle and have a conversation, and hopefully I can get it up again.  Sugaring is not as good a deal as before COVID, especially considering many SBs are not as skilled as escorts in bed, and the sex was relatively vanilla.

We met for coffee.  She's a little chubbier than her photos or at least she hid it well.  She basically said she was DTF whenever I want.  She's remodeling her place and needs cash but only wants one guy to help her make the monthly payment on the financing.  So her expectations are 1-2 times a month.  More is just gravy.  

We went to the pad and she sucked me like no tomorrow.  She told me her zoom at noon was camera off so I could cum in her face.  I happily obliged.  Zoom went off.  She has headphones on and talked a little bit.  Right after dropped to her knees and started blowing me again.  While I played with her kitten she took my thumb and shoved it in her ass.  She said anal for next time.  So I fucked her twice and she gave me a massage after before leaving.

But I really don't mind.  My SBs never make me feel rushed.  And at my age there's only so much bedroom activity I can manage in one session.  I did have one very different arrangement which ended in 2023.  We alternated meeting at her house and at mine.  We were an hour drive apart.  When we had a session at her house, we'd always go out to our favorite restaurant for a great meal and conversation together.  And when she came to my house, we'd take a ride on one of my motorcycles and stop somewhere for ice cream or food.  So those dates were measured in hours.  Haven't had an arrangement like that since.  Otoh, I had a wonderful time today with my youngest SB who I am tutoring about investing. After she wore me out in bed for nearly an hour, she donned a light coverup and sat next to me at the computer while we crunched numbers and talked about compound interest, rates of return, etc.  Her coverup fell open, so for the next hour and a half I was treated to the sight of her sweet titties and pretty much everything else.  Lots of touching was involved!  It was a longer than usual session for us, and one we both thoroughly enjoyed.

Saw a SB for 3 years. At first it was half hour of talk. 1.5 hour of play.  Over time I noticed the talk running longer and the playtime getting shorter. Her 3 or 4 orgasms with me and her toys.  Towards the end she always had some hair style appointment to do afterwards that was never mentioned before. Our last time she said.....I came. You came. We're done.  I was out of town for a few weeks and got back. She messaged me asking when we're getting together.  I  texted her....I came.  You came. We're done. Then said unless you change your rules were done. The next day she responded with...I guess we're done. Don't ever contact me again.  It's all about the Benjamin's!

Time in sack for me really depends on the SB and the chemistry. Usually with foreplay, oral, intercourse and afterglow cuddling [if she's into that, which most SB's aren't, I've found] probably an hour tops for me. I'm done after one, so multiple pops are extremely rare for me. Older SB's tend to be more conversational if they speak English. Sometimes after sex there's just not much else to say and she leaves.  

...sorry, couldn't help laughing, but are you entertaining a few that 'don't speak English?"  I mean, how do set up the meeting, etc??    

For women I’ve seen before, we usually get right to it when we meet. Afterwards, there is pleasant conversation and then they leave. For me, an hour is enough.  

It’s different with new prospects. We have coffee or lunch to size each other up.  Then the audition begins.

Euro-Guy... it's not easy!  

 
I've gotten a lot of replies from POTS who have very poor to little English, not sure why. Usually they are new to USA or been here for a short time. Usually we muddle through the intro process, sometimes using translator programs. There's one app for a cell phone that you speak into it and it translates and then outputs in English.  

 
Generally these POTS don't work out but one from Columbia I've been seeing for a year and a half and she's a beauty. At first we struggled to communicate. Her English has improved a lot and we can now have decent conversations. She's turned out to be a really decent SB, so the juice was worth the squeeze.  

 
The language of love doesn't require a translator, of course, and once the action begins it's an automatic understanding... but getting to the bedroom can be a challenge if you can't communicate clearly.

 
I wish it were easier but it ain't.  

 
The struggle is real.  

 
But I'm happy to report I still have both kidneys.