I met up with a new SB today. 19, sweet, cute, smart, petite, witty. We had a very good time. But in the course of conversation, she told me what her favorite movie was. I watched it tonight and it is horribly gross and disgusting. Not sure how to act on this but it kind of creeps me out the more I think about. Sugar dating is definitely....interesting.
Yeah, didn't think so.
Everyone has eccentricities, quirks, ideas that are off the centerline of what others may consider "normal."
She is not defined by a single favored movie. Just like you are not creepy for wanting to bang a hot, 19-year old who was probably in High School last year. (At least you are not creepy to us. LOL).
Maybe she gets aroused by blood and gore movies. She wouldn't be the 1st... Unless you are worried she wants to act out the gross and disgusting stuff in real life - on you - you can let it slide... and speaking of sliding.., get some extra lube! She may by more kinky than you know.
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The Cat
Just be glad it wasn't "Teeth".
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Maybe she is a literature buff. American Psycho was supposedly an allegory on corporate greed.
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However, alternatively, if she is turned on by violence, this isn't that unusual. Remember 50 Shades was popular primarily with women -- around the world.
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The best explanation I've seen why some people get turned on by the most repulsive stuff is because, as they said, "evolution is a cheap programmer." Arousal and revulsion share a lot of the same signaling process. It's not that unusual for signals to get crossed -- repulsive stuff causing arousal instead.
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The whole BDSM community is made up of people who probably harbor similar characteristics. But the vast majority of them deal within the bounds of consent, and aren't a lurking danger.
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So this chick probably has a wild side in the bedroom. I'd definitely explore that since I am kind of in the dominant side of BDSM.
Speaking of 19-year-olds..
I get messages from time to time from them and can’t say I’m not tempted. But I have so far steered clear of them. Something seems weird that I’m 3x their age. I get the feeling they’re not ready for this.. but then I think they are adults, that in previous eras they could be married with 2 kids, that it’s not that different from 24.
I generally get along with 25-35 year olds and enjoy their maturity, conversation and don’t feel as creepy with them.
Interested to hear about other guys experiences with the really young ones.
Just had a M&G with an 18-year-old who is local to me (less than 5 miles).
And.......
And.....
And.......
She says she is a VIRGIN!
Now it would not be a bad idea to bail, but frankly, she impressed me at the M&G. We had a fairly frank discussion about sugar dating expectations, allowances, and more. She came off as aware, invested, and eager to proceed. We took pics of each other's ID's (have to be careful!) and set a day/time for our 1st full date experience.
I am going to see this through to that date, while keeping my Spidey Senses on max range and max power.
Like Papa Sweet, my SB's typically land in the 22-28 range with a number of outliers in the 31-36 range. This is bound to be a wild experience! Right now, I'll give this a 25-45% chance that we will get to that date and everything will go as desired and planned. I'm, realistic though, that a lot can happen between now and that date.
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The Cat
I'm not that thrilled with the idea of deflowering virgins ... but realistically, we older guys are likely to give them the best first sexual experience they can hope for. It's almost certain that she'd have a much worse, possibly disappointing, experience with a younger man, possibly a virgin himself.
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So you're probably be doing her a favor.
Can't wait to hear how this one plays out, Cat! Please post an update when the time comes.
I've deflowered two virgin SBs. That I know of.
One told me afterward, and one told me as we began making out. Both of them told me they "chose" me to take their virginity based on my profile (and I suppose our text interactions).
I considered it a great honor in both cases. The first experience was sweet and wonderful but ended on a sour note when she became certain she was pregnant even though there was no realistic reason to think she was. She was relieved when her period came and wanted to meet again, but I had lost enthusiasm. The second virgin wanted to meet again a few months later as a pure date and I obliged. She spent the night. After she left, I found a note that read "best reunion ever" over her signature.
So from my experience, I would definitely be open to another virgin. There must be a field of study devoted to girls who want to lose their virginity, and then intentionally choose someone to take it from them.
Rockford
Through the years, there have been many stories like this one:
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/catarina-migliorini-brazilian-model-selling-2970598
"Brazilian model selling her virginity online extends auction to consider millionaire marriage proposal.
Catarina Migliorini has put the last day of the auction back to February while she considers taking an Arab millionaire up on his marriage proposal."
I've deflowered two virgin SBs. That I know of.
One told me afterward, and one told me as we began making out. Both of them told me they "chose" me to take their virginity based on my profile (and I suppose our text interactions).
I considered it a great honor in both cases. The first experience was sweet and wonderful but ended on a sour note when she became certain she was pregnant even though there was no realistic reason to think she was. She was relieved when her period came and wanted to meet again, but I had lost enthusiasm. The second virgin wanted to meet again a few months later as a pure date and I obliged. She spent the night. After she left, I found a note that read "best reunion ever" over her signature.
So from my experience, I would definitely be open to another virgin. There must be a field of study devoted to girls who want to lose their virginity, and then intentionally choose someone to take it from them.
Rockford
Not looking good... I texted her yesterday to confirm our upcoming 1st time BCD date. No reply.
When I finished work today, I went on Seeking to look at her profile. It's gone. Our messages are still viewable, under her profile name. I can't locate or view her profile using one of my Alt account, even by pasting the profile URL into the Alt's browser address bar.
This suggests that she turned off her profile, rather than being banned. But it also suggests she blocked me. It's not that easy to tell, really.
Last time I commented I predicted a 25-40%-ish chance of success. Now I'd say it's less than 20%. Fortunately, I still have 2 Asians, a Latina, and an Asian Porn Star in my rotation. So,
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The Cat
Yeah -- I think you are right. I kind of just realized that my SBs have been going down (no pun intended) in age over the past few years. Around 24 down to 19. I think I need to readjust up. 24 is alot more experienced and confident than 19. Thanks for raising the issue.
Herb is right, I generally seek the younger ones. It has been a while since I landed an 18yo though. I got reeeeal close a month ago, then she ghosted. If I'm lucky enough to meet a real 18yo SB again it will constitute the biggest age gap of my life. See, I keep getting older, at the rate of one year per year, while the 18yo SBs keep being just 18. Funny math!
I don't feel creepy entertaining teenage SBs. It feels great. And the rare 18yo's who find their way onto SA and eventually into bed with me have been exceptional young women. More self assured than average, and eager to please and to learn. Beautiful butterflies who land in my life, stay awhile and then flutter away.
What is meant by "SA" ?
Is there a site where these younger girls go to meet older men?
I'd love to meet a younger woman who wants to have her first experience.
...is now just "Seeking."
This is indeed a site where generally younger women (18+ please) go to meet generally older men to explore entering into a structured "arrangement."
Read up in this forum for more info.
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The Cat
Chances of meeting a virgin in this day and age are pretty slim.