...or less if you actually come with a woman during regular sex. This is for those of us who have posted regularly about the difficulty of coming, whether it be due to condoms, medications, the use of the blue friend, or what seems to be the biggest buggaboo of all: the fact that we have conditioned ourselves by too much jacking off. So, I'll take the Love Goddess' advice about masturbatory celebacy. No more jerking off for the next 30 days. I will have an appointment with my ATF during that time (probably about 2 or 3 weeks from now). Is anybody else willing to join me (that is, those of you who have the same difficulty)?

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I'll join ya, although I hobby about once a week.

Have you guys heard of a male sex toy called "Fleshlight"? It's supposed to feel very close to real sex. Using something like this instead of their hand might recondition guys with this problem to be able to come when having sex. You could even use it with a condom for more realism.

Anyone have one? Are they any good?

"Come" on guys! I/we need a support group to do this. Six hours after the original post and I'm pretty horny. I may not last even a week before needing to book the ATF.

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I'm supposed to see a lady in a few days, so I've been holding off on the self-gratification for a couple of weeks to see if I can manage the elusive second cup.  No picnic, that's for sure...

For a 2nd cup? I just want one cup. A very full cup. Please, God, just one cup! I made an appointment for late next week with the ATF. If I make it, it will be 12 days. I wonder, LG or anyone else, if the plumbing can get TOO backed up?

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two days so far! i hope i don't attack me....

No, amolatinas...but the BRAIN can get "TOO backed up" and CHOKE! Since you were smart and booked with your ATF, however, there probably won't be that sweaty-palm-new-gal-uh-oh scenario.

I bet you'll do fine and deliver a juglet,
the Love Goddess

I can orgasm, produce large quantities of the gooey stuff, and then the next AM, do it all over again.  In fact I always come at least once a day, and most days two times, and always produce much too much stuff to clean up easily.  5 years ago, I used to be able to do it twice in an hour, but those days are long gone (usually).  Now my "recharge" time is around 3 hours.  

But I guess it must have been those years of jerking off when I was younger.  I built up those muscles while the jocks were building up their other body parts.  I had one woman say to me that I should do porn since my productions are greater than the guys she works with normally.

So you guys stop jerking off, I will continue to do so, and keep those few muscles in great shape.

I think that you hit it right on about jacking off too much. When we're young and pleasure ourselves, frequently, we have no problem cumming. As we get older, and are in the habit, we expect our bodies to still perform the same. I'm 53 and noticed that if I masturbated to orgasm every 2-3 days, I had some difficulty cumming and my erections were diminishing in "quality." Recently, I stopped masturbating to orgasm and noticed that I can get erect almost whenever I want and when I want to cum, I have no problem. Many of you are thinking how you couldn't give up the habit, but he's a little trick: I actually have increased masturbating to several times a day, but I don't do it to orgasm. Yes, I know that would take control that many of you don't have, but I love the results. It means I can pleasure myself more frequently, yet still be able to have powerful orgasms when I want to. Another key is to space out your orgasms about 1-2 weeks apart. If I'm going to book with a provider, I actually have more motivation to hold off, because I'd rather be worrying more about exploding too soon than about whether I'll be able to cum at all.

But I have already had to start over twice! LOL! Today is day 1...

I choked [so to speak].

But an unescorted watermelon better not come near me!

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No way, You were busy posting all the jokes on the humor board!

Should it be any more acceptable when you apply it to yourself?

Why not try 3-7 days abstinence first and see if that shorter sentence isn't enough to work well for you?

Gotta make it to Friday. I've gained 2 pounds in the last 6 days. I'm not getting my usual exercise. I guess jerking off burns calories. Funny thing, my eyesight seems to be improving.

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Any effect on your IQ?

Seinfeld had an episode that posited that abstinance made men's IQ's go up, but women's IQ's go down.

Unfortunately (fortunately?), I've never had the wherewithall to test this out.

Don't risk a heart attack, caused by a sudden major change in sexual habits.

'An orgasm a day
keeps the doctor away.'

100% of the time as opposed to 90% makes one smarter, then I've become a friggin' genious.

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Amolatinas, I secretly joined you last Saturday, in your 30-day no-masturbatory challenge.  No Rosy Palm, just Real Woman.

I never thought I'd even be able to start, but the wallet is (briefly) a little heavier than month, so I can afford a few more appointments than usual.

OMG, I feel great!  I feel like it must have felt in our long-past environment, when we humans began to involve.  They were plenty of women in the cave.  Nowhere to masturbate privately, and no need to - plenty of persuadable partners.

I highly recommend this, to any man who finds your challenge intriguing. Now that I've gone public, I'm actually hopeful I can make this work till day 30.  

And by then, I may never want to go back. So will I have to work hard, to earn the $ needed!

Well, I guess motivation to work hard is the good ol' American way.