if you don't play you can't win....odds are about the same too!

SA and other related sites have never defined "what a sugar-baby is."

Accordingly, the ladies are left guessing (and hoping, in some cases) as to what their responsibilities clearly must be.

Right, so I met this woman, SB#1, for dinner recently at a nice restaurant she picked when I was visiting her town as a tourist. My messaging yielded two meets. The second was BCD at my hotel room, and was noteworthy for being a 21 y.o. spinner who wanted the sugar exchanges to go off as quickly as possible. Sometimes, I can only be amused by the take-no-prisoners opportunism of these SBs. You never know what you're going to encounter, but at least this girl, who is saving her SA money to pay for her move across to the left coast, was straight up with me, texted when she got home, and expressed some appreciation for my "sweetness".  

The other one, SB#1, ended the night with some physical appreciation out on the street, and agreed to meet the next night at the hotel. I messaged in the morning, and come early afternoon, she begged out due to illness. I expressed concern for her health and wellbeing. And, because I have a full rotation at home, and was done for this "tour", I deactivated my SA account. Which showed up to SB#2 as "blocking her", whereupon she messages that she is going to "report me" for soliciting. Whoa! I immediately block her threatening texts, from two different numbers, I think, and, of course, by the email she also had. Not sure if she is going to be able to put a big hurt on me, or not. Feedback to this event is always welcome, whether consolatory, helpful, or critical, lol.  

If I could identify any red flags that this was going to happen, it would be an inordinate number of messages that had to happen to nail down the first, and only, meet and greet date. Some of these complained about my lack of clarity in messaging, or were needed confirmation to be repeated. At the M and G, she gave me her analysis of the four different types of SA daddies, only one type of which was the "real" daddy (and one the johns, of course, who are only in it to go BCD). She was very fixated on a man who could help her "to meet her goals", which is usually only paid lip service in the profile. SB#2, for instance, only let on about amassing funds for getting to Cali when it came up in normal face-to-face convo.  

So, there you have it, gentlemen. What are the red flags you've noticed signaling (in retrospect, probably) that a BSC gal is about to unload on you?

Some SBs think that some guys are content with companionship and arm candy.  I agree that some are, but they are usually wealthy, lonely, and/or impotent.  And the girls who make good arm candy are those who are 9.0 and above and can carry themselves well.  Few guys want arm candy from a 7.5.

There are blogs out there that mislead the SBs.  The writers say they are average looking girls and get $3K per month for companionship.  That sets the expectations for others.  

Those of us who have a connection to TER, clearly are looking for sex in the Sugar Bowl, but I don't think the Bowl is necessarily about sex.  In the vast majority of cases, it is.  But in some, it's not.  Just a wild guess, but I'd say that 99% of the guys are looking for sex, and maybe 85% of the women are ok with sex.  Those 15% have a hard time finding the corresponding 1%.

in my profile I get some SB's who show up with $$ in their pupils. What I am now seeing is that my $100 and gas SB is wanting to come so often she is cock blocking me. She is a hot 25 year old who does it all, but I am starting to worry just a bit, lol. I think I might have to quit being such a nice guy and stop fucking her so well, lol. But it is a great deal and who am I to argue especially here in Vegas.

I got a hit on my profile page.  I was a bit puzzled when I clicked and read what the SB was searching for.  Apparently she had a girlfriend and they only came as a package deal.  Add to that she stated that her and her girlfriend only had sex with each other, wtf.