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RayC2 3 Reviews 7026 reads
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help me out on this please....I am new to this game and frankly to condom use.  I don't mean I have been taking chances in the past, and I sure am not wanting BBFS now (1970 was a different story). It's that I had a long term monog relationship and never worried about covers.  Now I find them to be so constrictive during FS that I can't maintain my poise or focus for long at all....feels like a rubber band around me.  I have tried Magnums which help some (I guess I am thick, not long) but need to know what to try next...obviously not something that will stay on, but there must be something large and thin enough to allow this to work.  cheers.

TheLoveGoddess4356 reads

Dear RayC2,

This is like trying on shoes; no one can tell you what's best, only you can decide. Some espouse the use of the female condom, which definitely would solve your problem. This entails the cooperation of the provider - maybe you can discuss this with a provider you've seen a few times?

Otherwise there's Magnum XXL; if you've tried that one and it's still too big, then do a search on the Web for other styles that may be out there.

Female condom sounds like it would do the trick,  pun intended ;-)
The Love Goddess

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OSP5278 reads

Nothing works for me.Magnum,female or any other. It is a crap shoot for me everytime I see someone. Will I or won't I 'finish'. In the 9 mos. I have been seeing ladies,I have crossed the finish line 5 times. I see ladies two to three times a month.You do the math. Every day I wonder what keeps me going back.

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infomike5006 reads

I know what you mean.

I've NEVER finished while using a condom in my whole damn life.

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BigPapasan4894 reads

...cost as compared to male condoms?  

Female condoms are made of polyurethane and nitrile so there is no allergic reaction to latex.

Admittedly, they are less sexy to put on (in) than a male condom, but it's worth it for the unrestricted feeling you get.

If women advertise that they offer female condoms, they may get more responses. As for me: "If you use it, I will cum."

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TheLoveGoddess5586 reads

If you have tried using the female condom and you are still having problems ejaculating (or orgasming, since some men do have "dry" orgasms), chances are it may not be the condom at all, but some other issue(s). These can range from performance anxiety, medical conditions, medications that inhibit ejaculation/orgasm and a whole host of other matters. Each individual has his unique bodily rhythm and can get affected in so many different ways. As to what keeps you going back - clearly, you are still a functioning man who likes sex - you'll just have to investigate and analyze the situation further.

Female condoms? More expensive than male condoms, sometimes people don't like the "crinkly" sound they make, and not always as easy to insert. For many women, it's just easier to run down to the convenience store and get a pack of male condoms than it is to get female condoms.

My suggestion would be for the male condom-averse hobbyist to purchase some female condoms and bring them to the provider. It's possible that she has never used one and may find them totally acceptable - or not. Again, we're dealing with individual preferences here, so it's difficult to say.

Decisions, decisions,
The Love Goddess

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Claudius423105632 reads

They work very well for me.

I had one provider reject their use because they were "cumbersome" and interfered with her own pleasure.

Another provider rejected them because of the _slight_ difference in effectiveness statistics with FCs being slightly less effective. She did not buy my argument that there was no physical reason for that. She rejected the idea that the lower statistics were due to a higher incidence of non use among the FC users due to the inconvenience.

So... moving right along.... I find them indispensible.

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SinsOfTheFlesh6447 reads

Try using Female Condoms. They dont' grip you at all, because they are held in place by a flexible ring inserted in her, and another ring that stays outside.

I've used them many times, and although they do take a bit of getting used to, I have found that most men have really loved them. In fact, several men have told me it is the next best thing to BB.

It is important to be sure that the condom is well lubed both inside and out, although it IS possible to use too much lube. Also, be careul when pulling out because you WILL make a big sloppy mess on the bed if you don't pull the condom out with you.

Hope this helps :)

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REGGIE19465 reads

I love 'em. I have had some resistance from 30-ish year old civvies, who see, to have issues. As far as I'm concerned, nothing feels better except nothing (which we all know isn't safe!)

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hiddenhills9596 reads

Sometimes a little homework is involved. I have found a web site that offers a wide selection of condoms and also has reviews of condoms. Sorta like TER for condoms. Obviously when supplying your own condoms, the final say in whether they can be used belongs to the escort. You know the drill unopened, still in box, etc.

Related Link: http://www.condomdepot.com

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