Had what could have been a close call 2 summers ago and just learned about it.

Met a young cutie, college grad, great body, etc...  From a location that could be considered "the hood", but I don't judge.  She was 45 minutes late for first M&G (I left, but she texted pictures of the daily menu to prove she arrived).  She was also late for the 2nd M&G and I bailed again (red flags).  To her credit, she was apologetic and persistent with communication and finally made it to the 3rd M&G.  Indeed represented herself well, eloquent, applying to grad school in my field of expertise and physically better than her pictures.  Slight red flags were the giant hoop earrings, excessive lip gloss and long fake nails (hood'ish).

We set up a BCD meeting and discussed the importance of timeliness.  She show's up on time, doesn't like my cab and asks if she can go to the hotel bar and get a drink.  I give her a little cash, she leaves her purse in the room and is gone for about 30 minutes.  Now I'm getting a little spooked.  Something doesn't feel right, so I decide to leave.  Grab her purse and go to the bar.  It's mid afternoon at an upscale hotel on a beautiful summer day and there she is sitting by herself on her 3rd Hennessy and coke texting on her cell phone.  I'd only given her a $20 spot (thinking 1 drink), she had a little cash in her pocket, but couldn't cover her third drink, so i closed out the tab (red flag).

She admits that's was extremely nervous (first time SB) and needed the drinks, but convinces me that she is OK.  I suggested that we cancel and leave but didn't put up much of a rebuttal as she wanted to stay.  Return to the room and she is clearly tipsy.  I secured all door locks and think that if anytime she goes for the door I will block and inform her that not only did I take a picture of her drivers license, but already texted the information to 3 of my friends.

Well, the exact opposite happened.  She remained extremely nice and a little submissive.  No one knocked on the door and we had one of the best SB sexual experiences to that point in time.  As I was recovering and gearing up for Round 3, she fell asleep.  Got her a bottle of water, left her in the room, and she eventually made it home safely.  No room charges.

Saw her 2 more times, but her appearance and presentation deteriorated.  On the third and last visit, I was in the hotel lobby when she arrived.  She was talking loudly on her phone, hair was not done well, and she had on a super tight catsuit.  Not a good look.  In the room, she wanted to up-charge me because "I could afford more".  I declined and received a hurried and less than engaged experience.   The last I saw was her walking out of my room, cash in hand and making a phone call.  I hurriedly left.

Recently, I've been recycling SB's with fairly good success.  So I thought about reaching out to the SB above, and of course Googled her name.  Holy shit!  Her long time boyfriend sentenced to 20 years in prison for committing 2 murders during the time of our sugar relationship.  Police found him 3 months later in a different state on the run.  She was with him during the crime and was sentenced to 3 years for conspiracy to cover up.    

I am thankful not to have been caught up in her drama.  Ignored all of the red flags which I no longer do.  Everyone stay vigilant and stay well.