LG - I guess we are all hung up to a certain extent on pleasing our woman during our romantic interludes.  I am no different - we want them to like us so they come back!

Do you know what % of woman experience clitoral retraction either during or just prior to orgasm in which you can feel her "C" retract during oral sex?  I thought this is pretty common (my wife's does this) and I believe it to be a sure-fire physiological way of detecting a female "O".

Dear STOLGUY,

ALL women experience clitoral retraction just prior to orgasm. It's a normal physical occurrence specific to the human female. It may not feel like it to the woman as the entire genital area becomes engorged and myotonic, but that's indeed what happens.

Masters and Johnson described it best,
The Love Goddess

thanks for the info LG, it's wonderful to learn something new everyday, especially something about my own anatomy!

Jeepers!

I need to pay closer attention! they're usually wiggling around so much that can get by un-noticed!

I'll have to just clamp on with my patented "mighty-mighty-suction clit grip", and perform the appropriate lingual analysis.


:P

oh please don't clamp down with your 'mighty suction clit grip". Just reading that made me cross my legs and wince.

DO NOT SUCK ON A WOMAN'S CLIT. It hurts. Very light suction with some tongue action feels wonderful. That will send me sailing straight over the edge in a heartbeat. But strong suction just plain HURTS.

I'm exaggerating!


( I do pay attention........)

It really does depend on the lady though. I've known some gals who like it quite rough on the button. This is after they are suitably warmed up of course!

Thank you for that bit of information.  I do not understand why most women will not tell us what does and does not work. What is the quote..."you have to tell us so we will know".