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The Erotic Highway

Chicagoland area?
Zippythepinhead 32 Reviews 503 reads
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Will be relocating for a 5-6 month period to the Chicago suburbs. Was wondering if anyone had thoughts on the SB scene in this area? I was last on SA pre-pandemic and now thinking about getting back in. Any info, recommendations or thoughts in general are appreciated

herbtcat31 reads

...there was a large market at the time.  

 
Chicago is famous for stunning, college-age brunettes.  And steak. And pizza. And hot dogs. And live blues clubs.

 
I'd start by fining a brunette, then pick the food. After dinner take her to a blues club like Buddy Guys and then back to your room to add more harmony.  

 
Seriously, the work needed to find POT's is the same everywhere. But since you are traveling there, I will offer some counter-intuitive advice: Start looking now to get an idea of the market - but- leave the "Notify her when viewed" setting off.  

 
Next, don't bother contacting a POT until you are less than 3 days from arriving.  Even if you can get a POT to agree to a M&G or BCD one or more weeks ahead, she's likely to cancel, ghost, or ask for advance cash (which must be an absolute no).    

 
Set up low-cost M&G's, perhaps with an option to go to a nice dinner or even BCD when it seems appropriate. The last time I was there, I had 3 M&G dinners set with the hope of flipping at least one to BCD. That strategy failed, as all three either wanted a huge allowance, or wanted two more dates before considering BCD. The result: Over $800 spent on 3 dinners and another $6.75 for a bottle of lube at 7-11 to cure my blue balls. Fortunately, I was able to find a local pro through TER who saved me the need to use the lube.  

 
If I had been there more than 3 days, like your 5-6 month trip, I could have greatly improved my results.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

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Zippythepinhead26 reads

Thanks for the reply…I appreciate the info. On a side note, are you guys finding that more women are now using SA as a traditional dating site than had in years past? Is that one of the post-pandemic evolutionary changes in SA? What are some of the other changes you see?

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herbtcat27 reads

Unfortunately, the trend since covid has been in the other direction, with more and more scammers, GPS rinsers, online-only/OnlyFans sellers appearing every day.   There are still "legit" women looking for a "legit" Sugar Daddy out there, but you will need to work through a lot of chaff (maybe 10-30 bogus profiles) to find the wheat (1 or 2 viable POT's).  

 
If you see profile text that talks about finding "true love" or looking for a long-term partner, or stating that she has her own money, owns an international business (usually with ties to Hong Kong), etc., you will find that these POT's are:  
1. Not from or even in the US
2. Probably trying to set the bait for the Pig Butcher Scam with you as the pig.  
3. Almost certainly NOT a woman, or if she is a woman, she is...
4. Working in a scam farm center in SE Asia or Eastern Europe.  

 
Run from these. Just move on.  They are porting the scams they have honed on sites like eHarmony and Match that prey on older, lonely guys (i.e.: Simps) to the Sugar Bowl.  

 
See link for a real-life Pig Butcher story.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Related Link: https://youtu.be/K7Gm40-Cv48?si=7k7QH70SujMfgu-a

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Zippythepinhead28 reads

Those key words , phrases, tips to sort out the ones not looking for a traditional SD/SB arrangement were very helpful. Thanks. On the flip side of that, is there a trick (words to look for, method of presentation,etc) that seem to indicate a legitimate SB open to ppm to start sm arrangement?

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sweetman29 reads

Everything Herb said about scammers is true, but you should know that a year or two ago Brandon Wade, who owns the SA site, met his "true love", quit sugar dating and adopted the monogamous lifestyle.  He decided to re-brand Seeking Arrangement and call it Seeking.  He removed all references to arrangements and is trying to reinvent the site as an "Upscale Dating Site".  Therefore many newer profiles are indeed from women who are looking for their one true love or marriage partner. i.e., a traditional dating site with the twist that the men here are more affluent.  There are still many members who know this as a sugar dating site, but it takes work to find them.

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AsianManNOVA28 reads

I have been getting a lot of messages lately from women in their late 30s to late 40s (several in their early 50s). They were all looking for a long-term relationship so maybe it's true more women are joining Seeking to find a partner.

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lester_prairie26 reads

Just on the population size, there ought to be some gold out there.  You do have to pan through a lot and also avoid the fools gold.  But there are nuggets there.

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