No, not really, curt23,

The anatomy of most women is such that the clitoris is a little "too far" from the vagina, thereby making it difficult to orgasm from mainly vaginal stimulation. It's biology, not conditioning. Some studies have shown that appx 75% of women do not orgasm from vaginal penetration, but strictly from clitoral stimulation. Hence vibrators, Sybians and other sexual aids.

For men, the issue is largely psychogenic, meaning that repeated stimulus from "artificial" sources creates a conditioned response. Such men need to go back to square one and engage coitally with as many "live females" as possible to recondition themselves to a behavior that is evolutionarily "sound."

Hope that cleared it up,
The Love Goddess

LG I have read all your replies to men who overdue masturbation and cannot come with real girls. Also about women who only orgasm with clitoral stimulation. This woman I know only comes with direct vibrator stimulation and then she will sometimes squirt also. If I insert a finger or penis while she is vibrating her clitoris she gets very excited but just cannot come until I remove the finger or penis. Yet she can orgasm with a Sibian inside her just not squirt. The squirting is not needed but she is wondering why she cannot orgasm with anything inside her. Is this like men over masturbating?

Thank you LG that does clear up why the vibrator is needed. Now her only concern is even with the vibrator giving the needed stimulation the insertion of anything else in her vagina prevents the orgasm.

Maybe she is just not completely letting go. Or perhaps not fully comfortable with penetration. Some women have a preference, and that can condition the mind.

I can from finger penetration but it depends on the person and how he does it.... and whether I allow myself to open up and let go.

Hope that helps...