I ask this question on the newbie Bord and got slamed for not know how to look it up. I have looked it up but can not find the answer. what is tantric sex and why wont any one tell me what it means.

If you Google "tantric sex" there are 156,000 hits. I'm sure you can find some useful info in there some place. Research is research, be it on The TER boards or elsewhere...

Thank you ! thats all i wanted to know.

Tantric sex involves actively training yourself in avoidance of quick ejaculation in order to more fully enjoy the sexual experience.

Controlled breathing and various exercises to prolong the experience are a part of it.

Click the link below for one of the better sites devoted to this.  It also includes a schedule of traveling tantra providers and the cities and dates they will be there.

I just adore it.

Old age and viagra have pretty much solved any quick ejaculation issues in my sex life....

No problem, smithfredsmith,

Tantric sex originated in India thousands of years ago. Some of the tantric practices are described in the Kama Sutra. I have attached a link for your convenience.

If you are having continued problems, please let us know,
the Love Goddess (not a tantric one, alas)

My frustration is due to the fact that I did not understand my questions depth. I Know of a lot of diferant positions but could not figure out the tantric postion. if I had known it was  art form or technuque I would have looked at google first. to be honest