How big an "event" is turns out to be is completely up to you. I would however, ask this Q: do you really want your first time to be with a professional?
Providers boost confidence, yes. They're almost sure to get your rocks off and let you have a good time. But remember that's their job... the moans, groans, sexy lingerie, makeup, BBBJ and Greek (if any of the above happens) are part of the deal. Experiencing this your fist time might permanently distort your view of what actually goes on during intercourse. Civvie sex is rarely as dramatic/good (in my experience at least).
Oh the other hand... if you're horny as hell, do some research here on TER for highly rated providers... make sure you talk to them plenty and let them know your situation (as I'm sure LG would recommend). If they're unwilling to talk or take your situation lightly... wrong girl. Move on.
Good luck and feel free to keep up updated!
Dear togusa,
This should be a fun and exciting experience for you! Your age is irrelevant, to say the least. Don't even concern yourself with it. Here is some good old-fashioned advice for that first time around:
For comfort and a leisurely pace, I would suggest meeting a mature (35+) lady, with stellar reviews and who can carry on a conversation beyond the superficial. There are so many beautiful ladies around. Do a careful search on TER, with all the specifications your heart desires.
When you meet with her, I would suggest disclosing your virginal status. She may be a little incredulous at first [some men use the "virginity" angle as a ploy, believe it or not,] but if you try to stay open and honest, she will understand. Succcessful providers are not only fine lovemakers, but also good listeners and empathic indviduals as well.
Please don't feel pressured to act like a seasoned Casanova. Just proceed according to your own pace. If you don't feel like having/giving oral sex, then abstain. If some positions seem odd or silly, then don't do them. The provider - if you select one who's been around the block a few times - should understand this and will not push.
You could also let yourself be lovingly seduced by the provider. In this case, ask her to prolong the foreplay, since there's a good chance you may pop quickly from sheer excitement. Again, a skilled provider knows exactly what to do.
If you can afford it, choose a two-hour appointment - or longer. That will give you a chance to get to know each other a little beforehand, and you won't feel so pressured for time.
Please stay away from drugs and alcohol, as they can compromise your performance. Remember that if you feel a little skittish, talking about non-sexual issues beforehand with the provider (your job, your hobbies, your travels, etc.) are topics that usually take the edge off any performance anxiety. Also, it can be quite arousing to talk about completely non-sexual matters with a very sexy lady!
You may wish to ask the provider to dress in regular clothes as opposed to lingerie when she greets you. This takes the pressure off and besides, it's very erotic to undress each other SLOWLY. In addition, some newbie gents prefer providers with natural makeup and maybe just jeans and T-shirt, to make things more "real."
Of course, these are just guidelines. Remember that YOU are the client and this is YOUR experience. You can certainly request clothing, venue, ambiance, etc. before the appointment.
Please let us know how it went,
the Love Goddess
