After a rough year of mostly quarantining, I finally got vaccinated last month and feel safe to socialize again.  What better way to reward myself than by A; rebuilding my local rotation and B; planning a Playcation to one of my favorite mongering spots! Phoenix has always been good to me, so I booked some flights and started browsing the Phx profiles.

Over the course of an evening and the next morning I sent out a total of 34 messages. This is a numbers game, always.  I was clear about my intent to enjoy just a one time fling if they were open to that sort of thing.  My 34 candidates were limited to women whose profiles said something about short term, let's meet tonight, wanna have fun, or any other indication that they might actually be open to a one time playdate with an out of town visitor. I hoped to get at least a few interested replies.  One of the 34 was a lovely 29yo Asian woman I'd played with twice in pre pandemic days.  The others were all strangers.

Much to my surprise I wound up getting 10 positive responses,  29% of the total.  Wow!   Keep in mind that I'm only planning on being in town for 2 nights and at my age, any more than 2 dates was sheer fantasy! So I began triaging.  One of the girls on my A list is a stunning, petite, 22yo Latina.  She seemed very sincere about wanting a playdate, agreed to a reasonable allowance, and when we moved to text she immediately sent me a nude picture which had my mouth watering and other body parts affected too.  Wow.  So I have committed my first evening to spend with her.

For my second evening I was hoping to see my sweet Asian SB but she did not respond. But I got a very positive response from another A lister, a 23yo blonde beauty.  We've been messaging, and I've indicated I'd love to see her.  Only then did my Asian friend reply and say she'd love to see me again.  I figure she's a sure thing, so I've committed my second night to her.

And wouldn't you know it, my blonde beauty just asked me if it would be alright if her GF joins us.  Omg, I'd love that, but there's no way I can handle more on top of the two I've already selected!  Should I cancel one I've already committed to in hopes of a 3some with the blondie and her friend?  What would you do?  And my trip is still over a week away so I have time to decide.  What a great problem to have!  And of course, when the time comes, I'll let y'all know how the trip went!

A couple of obvious options:
You can extend the trip and get in all the action you want.
Or tell one of the ladies your trip was canceled.. one of your colleagues tested positive and you’ll see her next time

Sweets...you I have always respected and loved your postings...but just a gentle note: PHX has become populated with mostly scammers and platonic trash...not to say your dates won't play out, but equally so, I somewhat dropped out of the 'action' here because 95% of it is fake.  Well, OK, I'm going to hook up in a more or less serious way with a girl I did meet here several years ago...but trust me, this place is an absolute waste-land.  LOL

I will check back in now and then and see how you did, but...well, I'm not telling you anything a seasoned vet like you doesn't already know.

I totally hear you!  Thanks for the gentle note and the kind words.  If you're a long term Phx monger you probably remember the heyday when several well respected escort agencies plus many excellent indies set a very high bar for quality in Phx.  I am well aware that the landscape has changed, perhaps more there than other places simply because the bar used to be very high in Phx.  But I have my spidey senses on high alert, more so now with your good counsel.  And I'm very glad I committed to my Asian girl since I know she's for real.  So even if my date with her turns out to be my only successful fun during the trip I'll still be a very happy camper.

I second PP's comments. I suggest you stick with the Asian one you already know and be very careful of the new ones. I'm very curious as to how it's going to turn out for you. Please post results

It's been my experience in the bowl that anytime a girl you haven't yet met want to "bring a friend" it's generally a scam. I've read other stories about it being an outright rob. So, be careful on that 3some she's offering, could be a huge mistake.

I will def post results!

Thanks for the warning.  I agree it could be a scam and that's one reason I have declined her invitation for a visit.  In the past my feeling was that girls posting as duos or asking to bring a friend were just concerned for their own safety and wanted backup.  And that's probably still true in some cases.  But the scam danger is a bigger concern these days so I'm not gonna risk it.

I have many, many fond memories of visiting a location known as Southwest Attractions in PHX in the early 2000's.  It was a sure thing and the talent rotation, though small - perhaps 2 to 3 a night - was always in the 8-9 range.  

 
Oh well...  

 
Now as to Papa Sweets OP, I lean on the extend your trip side of the equation.  Assuming the costs of one more hotel and rental car day (or are you driving the Sugar Express there?), the added costs can't be that much.  

Alternatively, stick with the 1st two who booked and let the potential duo know you will be back in town every 3-5 weeks (for work, family, whatever...).  

 
For me, all other things being equal, I'd tap the three way and the Asian.  But that just me...

 
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