I already noted the 26-year-old Latina that reconnected after 1.5 years. After she was a no-show for lunch 2 weeks ago (food poison), she has stayed in contact, sent me sexy (non-nude) pics and expressed her continuing desire to meet again. Luch scheduled again on Thursday, but this time near my place (as opposed to the 40-minute drive from before).  I'm really not sure if I want to restart a regular arrangement, put her on my B-list (which essentially means monthly or less) or just decline claiming some reasons.

 

But wait! There's more!  

 
At the end of my "head spinning" cycle 2 weeks ago, I also connected with a hot Asian babe, 32-years, graduate degree, and looking for a new SD after a 2-year arrangement at a stunning $2,000 PPM!  We met and she expressed interest, even saying she understood that $2k was no longer a reality in the area. I negotiated her to $500 - with female condoms for intercourse (yes, she's just that hot). She seemed reluctant to accept, and I realized she was not really comfortable with my offer. I told her to take some time, and I would follow up the following week. When I did, she told me she "likes and trusts me," but she just needs more allowance.  I told her I understand and that my offer will be remain open if she changes her mind and wished her good luck in her search.  Since then (about 10 days), I've gone BCD with 3 other SB's of course (Life is good!).  

 
Today, she texted me with the following:  

 
"Hi hope you're doing well. I gave it more thought, haven't had much traffic on the site & felt you were the most reliable & trustworthy so I'll be able to visit the lab for tests tomorrow or Wednesday"  

 
I know! That's so damn sexy, right? She essentially said I am the least objectionable POT she's met, and she really needs cash.   Honestly, that's actually good enough for me.  

 
Of course, I currently have a full dance card through the beginning of next week. But I thanked her for reconsidering my offer and let her know I'd be happy to schedule a first date next week.  

 
So there it is... even after (or if) we actually meet for BCD, I fully expect her to "upgrade" to a bigger wallet as soon as she can.  

 
But that's normal in the Sugar Bowl.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Agreed, Herb. As angry as I get when POTS flake out or bail on me I hold my tongue and choose patience and kindness over burning bridges. Many of these gals are troubled, barely making rent, living in cars, etc. Many are having difficulty navigating life, so it's expected they won't always have the social graces or the consideration for us as we have for them. As long as she's not mentally unstable or a sociopath, better to keep the door open. She may return down the road.