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-- Modified on 9/7/2018 2:28:15 PM

You could be a bad breaker-upper, and not know it.

Please describe how you attempted to go about it, and her specific responses.

This could prove instructive for all of us.

In the past few years, I had to break up with some long time regulars, and the way I went about it was strict radio silence.   It seems to work best.

but every so often I need to end it with a SB.  Most recent case was a hippie chick who lived 90 miles away in a funky log cabin in the mountains.  Needless to say, the trip to see her finally became more of a burden than a pleasure, even though she was young, and cute, and had zero gag reflex.  I just faded out of her life.  Quit calling her.  She texted me just once, politely wondering if I'd like to see her again.  I squirmed out of it and said I was too busy and that was that.

I can empathize with the challenge to get out unscathed.  
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I took the same approach to breaking up as I did to negotiating the original arrangement - I made it all about me. I made my allowance offer based on my budget and not on her "worth". I explained my departure based on my (supposedly) changing needs and not on her failures or problems.  Add to that my instinct that less was more - I said something like "well my life has changed and I've decided not to do this anymore".   Then I stopped volunteering any additional info.  
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Answers to her questions were predictable:  
Yes, it was awesome being with you
No, its not anything you did, it's just not right for me any more  
Yes, I think of us a friends and I always will (* more on this below.)  
No, I have no regrets
No, I won't tell any of my friends anything. If they ask I'll just say we parted friends.  
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* Interesting to note: Since I ended it, she continues to text me every 2 or 3 days to say hi.  She hasn't asked for money or offered any p4p sessions. She even suggested we go see a movie together and we did - as friends (although I paid for the tickets).  
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If you read my post about why I broke it off, you'll find this interesting as well. Her social medial posts with the noted guy have increased. More nights out at fancy clubs and bars, he's sent her flowers, bought her Gucci sunglasses and just yesterday, sent her even more flowers  - this time with a stack of Benji'es between the stems.  It's almost funny to see this guy "funding" what was once my pussy tax.  Good luck, Dude. Meanwhile my two replacement SB's are rocking my world for a combined sugar that's 75% of what I was spending on her.  The last session with the shy one was amazing... she was blowing me and I asked her where she wanted me to cum. in the past she's insisted it be on her tits or stomach. But I had just taken her shopping at Victoria's Secret and she must have been feeling the princess vibe when she looked up at me and said "cum in my mouth Daddy. Cum for me please."  
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I'm off now for a M&G with a 27 year old project engineer who says she just bought a new house. Her profile says she's not all about the money & sex, she wants a friend, mentor, partner for activities, blah, blah, blah... This is a departure from my usual POT SB profile of 18-23 yr olds who can't pay their rent AND think they deserve a BMW from Daddy just because they have perky tits. We shall see.  
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Life is good.
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The Cat