I'm surprised no one posted anything for almost a week.

For me, life is going good.  Still seeing GCG on a regular basis.  Picked up a new pot that lives in Vegas but wants to move to LA.  She's coming for a weekend in a few weeks.  Super cute, slender Indian.  We will see if she pulls through.

Tons of girls from the past are reaching out wanting to meet.  So I'm guessing whomever they were seeing ended.

Had to cut one of my regulars and one of the every so often girls.  The regular, during sex, said "I love you."  When I tried to see how she felt, she got very defensive and wanted things to end.  The not so regular accused me of giving her an STD.  Got tested twice.  Both came negative.  Offered to meet up and we can share results.  She has not responded.  So assuming she either doesn't believe me or is being stubborn.

Got a lunch date with a new super cute asian.  Possible lunch date with a new Latina.  Haven't had an active sub on SA for a bit and still have a roster.

Thanks for confirming that the Sugar Bowl remains a lively market for mutually beneficial relationships. It's always great to hear the positive experiences, even if your report has some mixed results.  

 
Seems like a few years back we were lamenting the dearth of HYA's - Hot Young (American) Asians - on Seeking. Today, they can be found - if perhaps in the high-end of the allowance ask. But they are there, even after discounting the Chinese Pig Butcher honey traps.  

 
Lately, finding women from India (and Pakistan, I suppose) are the elusive profiles. I have always been a fan of slender Indian babes - perhaps a product of working in the Bay Area in FinTech for so many years - and have yet to connect.  

 
A search on Seeking for East Indian brings back less than 5 (somewhat) active profiles in a 25-mile radius. And none of them are "stunners."  

 
The positive STD test topic is always a challenge, no matter who "reports" it first.  It's especially difficult when you believe you got if from her and she has a BF or Hubs.  Went through that in 2023 when was I notified I had tested positive for Trich. At the time, she was the only BCD partner I had. She tested positive, her BF said he was negative. I got my pills the same day and retested negative later that week. She and the BF had (still have) one of those on-again, off-again things, so they got past it. I'm still fairly certain he was "Typhoid Mary" for this outbreak. Not something I can control, of course. But that's why I get tested monthly.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

My luck with Indian girls has not been stellar.  The few who do actually respond tend to have outrageous allowance expectations.  The few I have connected with have been fun with the exception of one that I posted about a year ago or so.  

I still talk to two of them from time to time.  They are good, just moved on with their lives.

So far, we've done some video dates and talk on the phone/text a lot.  Her allowance expectation in person is 1k but for the entire weekend.  So I'd say that's a fair deal.  We will see if it actually happens though.  Her life is a bit.... chaotic.

My SB and I were at a Missing Persons concert last Saturday and she said to me "I love you" while I was dancing a couple of feet away. I blew her a kiss back. First time she's ever said that. Don't believe there is anything behind it, think she was just in a moment of true happiness. If I ever suggested a romantic relationship she would run for the hills. Still nice to have her be affectionate in that way. Next weekend off to see Devo and the B52s at the Hollywood Bowl with her. That should be a blast. Have a weekend in LA planned around the concert, mostly art museums and culinary delights.

If you really want to know if she is serious when she says "I love you" there is a simple test to see if she is being honest.

 
But beware as the test could end the arrangement instantly!  

 
Tell her you love her as well and suggest you drop the allowance and go meet each other's families.  

 
Ok, the REAL TEST is if you believe telling her that will work. If you don't, she's not in love with you.   :p  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

I love all my sugar babies and I tell them so.  Many reply, love you too!  None have ever misinterpreted my statement to mean I am in love with you.

I love The Cat's take on this!

Same here. Most take it as a term of affection, nothing more. Most in this dynamic understand arrangements aren't of the same love currency as plain vanilla relationships. Still, some people get spooked by the L word and may run when it's uttered. I use the word sparingly for that reason.

Hehe, I already know financially she needs the allowance.  Which is why I was surprised she was so quick to cut things off.  She could have done well with herself by saying it was in the heat of passion, during the sex.  I was expecting her to come back to me wanting to keep our dinner plans for last weekend but she has not.  

Shame, she's smoking hot and a lot of fun to spend time with.

At the risk of turning this into the Indian Girl Thread: There have been five. I wish there had been more.

 
1. Slender, pretty, adopted Indian girl in Atlanta early 20s who exclaimed "I came!" at the right moment. Then she kept telling me that only happened two other times. It never worked to see her again.

 
2. Late 20s normal attractive figure Indian girl in Chicago who said she was fucking men "just to piss off [her] parents." Reminded me of a Sudanese girl who told me the same thing. It never worked to see her again.

 
3. Voluptuous 19yo very dark Indian girl in New York. Inexperienced but wanted everything I could bring. Almost begged me to see her again but I wasn't interested.

 
4. Gorgeous, petite Indian girl early 20s in Chicago. Dinner date was awesome. Conversation was awesome. Vibe was awesome. Sex was amazing and she let me do whatever I wanted, however I wanted, and still asked for more. I was sure she was going to be a LT thing. But she ghosted. I later saw her profile on SA. When I reached out, she insta-blocked me. I have no idea why.

 
5. Pretty, mid-20s, vivacious, life-of-the-party, Indian girl in DC. But she knew she needed masculine guidance and that's where I came in. An incredibly rewarding arrangement in every way for almost two years. She always changed plans to see me. Low allowance. She actually made me laugh. It ended with a whimper probably because I couldn't see her more frequently and I wouldn't increase the commitment.

 
I'm trying to pull a petite, 19yo adopted Indian chick now in NYC and we are far apart on allowance. I don't think it's going to work.

 
Rockford

We finally had the weekend together.  And....  It was a complete shit show.  I'll break down the details, in case of TLDR, it sucked and I'm not talking to her anymore.

We went from her committing to coming in every weekend for the weekend to me deleting her contact info.

I bought her plane tickets to fly here.  She gave me her info so I paid for them.  She was to fly in early Friday to early Sunday.  I planned all day Friday to spend time together and go to a comedy show that night.  Saturday we were going to go on a hike, go to a great Indian restaurant (recommended to me by Indians).  She's vegetarian so a vegan Indian place would be perfect.  Then to a bar I like.  Followed by an evening in bed.  Early up for bagels, then to the airport.

So, she misses her flight.  Overslept.  Calls me complaining.  Obviously I'm mad.  She starts whining that I'm being mean.  I told her to go to the counter and get a new flight.  Was waiting for her to ask me to pay for it.  Was ready to cut it off.  She got a new flight landing at 10pm....  So, wasted money on the show for the evening.  She said I could take it out of her allowance.  Still not really how I wanted to start the weekend.

I pick her up, she looks cute in a dress.  So good sign.  We go grab a late night drink and she was hungry.  So she downs some nachos and 3 jack and cokes.  Girl can drink like a fish.  We head to my place, then she tells me she's on her period.....  WTF.  I'm fine with period sex, so it eventually happens but she's nagging me till probably 3 am.  So it was lazy, late night meh sex.  She also suddenly says she doesn't like giving blowjobs.

Saturday morning.  I'm a morning person.  So I wake up and let her sleep in.  She stays in bed till 11.  Finally I'm hungry and wake her up for brunch.  We go somewhere local and she downs Mimosa's like it's going out of style.  We head back to my place.  I tell her about the hike I planned and she says she wants to take a nap.  4 hours later I wake her up.  We end up just going to a local park to walk my dog for a bit.  So no real hike (she said she's a huge outdoors person).

Waking around my house, I see blood spots on the floor.  She forgot pads while on her period and bled over my house.....  She sees them and tries to wipe it up with a tissue.  I grab cleaner and start spraying.  She said sorry, so we go get her pads.  This was the time I was done.  I wish she drove so I could just kick her out and not wait for a flight in the morning.

She gets ready, takes an hour or so for makeup and hair.  No surprise there.  Good looks take time.  She looks hot.  We go to dinner.  The restaurant and bar are amazing.  Staff at the bar know me so they were surprised to see me on a date.  Service was amazing.  She commented on the bill, saying it was low.  I told her she lives in Vegas, everything is more expensive there.  I leave a large tip and she comments about expecting the same.....

We go straight to sleep.  No sex.  I wake her up for the flight and she refuses to get up.  Till I tell her I'm not paying for her flight change and not letting her stay at my place while waiting for a new flight.  I drop her off and she complains that I am in a bad mood and don't want to see her again.  I tell her that the weekend was pretty bad.  She gives me half a kiss as she leaves.  Two seconds later I get a text asking for her allowance via Zelle.  

I sent her $500.  She complains immediately about it being the entire weekend.  I respond with, you missed a flight.  Missed the show I bought tickets for.  Slept almost all day yesterday.  And made a huge mess in my house.  She then complains that she has her car in the shop and can't afford to pay the repair bill.  Four hours later she posts on Instagram pics of her and a friend dolled up ready to go out........

Damn, that sounds about as awful as it gets.  I have flown an SB to me a few times and most went well, or at least ok. But the ones that went well were with long-term established SB's who were local to me at the start. For almost a decade I was living in San Jose and travelling back home to LA 4 to 8 times a year. I accumulated 3 B-List SB's along the way and would occasionally fly one of them to me for a weekend romp to places like San Francisco, Napa, or San Diego.  

 
The time it all went to hell was a long and complicated story, so I'll just skip to the final chapter. She was 23, a very sweet and nubile blond, with natural and firm C's and was playful and submissive, when she wasn't trying to rip me off. She had returned home to Alberta and wanted to visit LA for a month. She if I would cover airfare and some allowance, she would stay with me for 5 days then move in with her female friend who would have a room available for rent. I was wary of her motivations and told her she'd need to meet ALL of my expectations during her time with me. In her effort to convince me she was serious, we did explicit video chats (which I captured on my PC), and she sent me vids and pics along with promises of meeting all my demands. She even gave me contact info for her friend and asked me to call her to "verify" her intentions, which I did, as I had previously met the friend in the past.

 
I paid for round trip tickets from Alberta to Burbank and told her I would meet her at baggage claim.  Just like your Indian girl, she missed the flight, and I had to reschedule for 2 days later.  Then I tracked the flight on my airline app to ensure she checked in, and I drove to the airport to wait at baggage claim. I monitored the flight all the way to landing and watched for passengers to come for their bags.  She did not appear after 30 minutes. It's a small airport and that was more than enough time to get to me. I was texting her with no response. Finally, I went out to my car and reparked where I could watch the main entrance/exit and texted again.  She finally replied-she was getting a ride from her friend and would come to see me in a day or two. WTF?  I lightly questioned her about the friend. HE was her friend in Alberta and wanted to visit LA with her.  He had grabbed her bag and hers then doubled back to where she was waiting.  I called bullshit and told her to come to my car now. She ghosted, of course. The only play I still had available was to cancel her return trip, which I did in my car.  

 
So she used me for a free flight and obviously had no intention of ever meeting me again - except: About a month later she texted me to "apologize."  She gave me a sob story that her "friend" (the male one) had kicked her out and abandoned her. She was broke and homeless and was in the US under her Canadian passport.  I gave her the best advice I could: Go to the Canadian Embassy and offer to fuck the Ambassador for help.  Don't think she followed up on that.  (Yes, this is one bridge I not only burned, I nuked it!)  

 
PS: I've added an Amazon link to a waterproof blanket. It's very useful for BCD during a "rainstorm."  And I also stock a box of tampons and pads in my bathroom. Surprisingly (or not), I've had to replenish the supply a few times over the last 4 years.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

I've kept a box of tampons in my trusty RV for years.  Just seems like an obvious thing to do when dating Earth girls. So far, I've never had to open it.

This is why I avoid importing pussy from out of town. There's just too many things that can go wrong and when they do, you're stuck with her.  

 
With Seeking and SDM available there is no real reason to import, there are plenty of locals to choose from. It's far less risky, saves time/money...  and allows you to bail quickly if you need to.  

 
A woman is too unpredictable to chance anything other than an extended date. I don't do overnights as it messes with my body clock and quite frankly it's more of a pain in the ass than a pleasure for me.  

I've imported 3 girls from Las Vegas over the years, with a normal schedule of early Friday - Sunday.
Obviously each was a stunner - close to a 10 in looks and style.
Two of them were textbook perfect: BCD time within a couple of hours,  some pool time, nice dinner, etc.
The third was definitely more lazy and wanted to sleep in Saturday until I reminded her that we were both 'on the clock'
No horror stories at all!  
I think I've mention this before, and maybe it's just because I've had good outcomes on all, but the real issue is cost.
A few hundred for airfare, hotel room at 300 or so per day, "entertainment" expenses: spa treatments, room service, etc...so approaching $1500 or so, not even including a couple of really nice (expensive) dinners.
Total damage for the long weekend was around 4K....and to be honest,  for that you can get alot of local pussy!

Euro-Guy,

 
I agree there are some crazy stories here (not that I doubt their truthfulness).  

 
At risk of repeating my stories on this board, I've limited my downside on "imported" pussy by insisting that any chick who wanted to fly to me had to pay for her own ticket from her own pocket and trust me to reimburse her in cash after a successful weekend. (Two of them did this on our very first meeting! And a third chick -- super hot Asian -- was ready to do the same thing, but honestly admitted she got a "better offer" to go to Florida that weekend, which I did not doubt.)  

 
Why did I do it that way? I guess it's because I had good options within reach even if the imported chicks didn't fly to me. I just never wanted to see any particular import badly enough to cough up the dough to buy her ticket.

 
I never had the problem of a chick overstaying and missing her flight (although one was so horny she overstayed, without my knowledge, and ended up spending most of a day at the airport waiting for another flight when she missed her scheduled flight -- at least she wasn't overstaying in my space).  

 
Rockford

It makes perfect sense to ask an out of town fly-in to pay for her own ticket upfront, with the agreement that you will reimburse her when she shows up.  I'm impressed that you've had success with this!  My protocol is that I will buy the ticket for them online if they send me their full name as it appears on their photo ID.  On Southwest I have so many Rapid Rewards points saved up, it costs me nothing to book her flight.  And if she cancels or misses her flight, I can get my points fully reimbursed.  So not much risk. Unfortunately I've never actually put this plan into practice.  All my attempts have crashed on the rocks of allowance amount.  My offers have never been accepted.