Not much info to go on here, but the major difference between performing with a provider, vs. porn, is performance anxiety. Especially if the amount of money you're spending is causing you stress.
You're probably discussed this before, Goddess, but I'm so tired of spending big bucks for a session and not being able to perform. I know it's on me and not the provider...they are all attractive and most have tried real hard. The frustrating thing is, I can get hard as a rock watching porn, even soft porn, on the internet. I even get aroused reading some of the reviews in here. HELP !
I don't want to put words in her mouth, but this sort of thing has come up before. I'm assuming based on your comment that you consume a significant amount of porn in lieu of sex with live females.
Over time, the substitute for the real thing (porn), has become the real thing and the new trigger for your arousal. You've conditioned yourself to get aroused at the porn images of a real woman, rather than the actual woman.
I think a lot of guys share this problem due to the high cost of seeing providers and the scarcity of willing civilian women after you've reached a certain age. Porn fills the void. But over time, you become conditioned to respond to the porn and not the real thing. It won't be fun reversing the process, but you'll have to lay off the porn IMO.
Not much info to go on here, but the major difference between performing with a provider, vs. porn, is performance anxiety. Especially if the amount of money you're spending is causing you stress.
We have discussed this topic over and over again. Stop masturbating for 60 days (yes, 60), remove ALL porn for 60 days, i.e. DO NOT watch movies, look at photos or digital images, and STOP reading reviews.
Instead, book appointments with real, live women while this is going on. If there are women you don't pay for sex, get with them too. As many living, breathing human beings as possible. Eventually, you will retrain yourself to the following:
1. Less performance anxiety 2. Less images dancing around in your head of what sex should be like 3. More habituation to sexual encounters with a variety of living, breathing human beings.
One more gory detail - if it's the condom that's spooking you, change brands. You WILL have to experiment on that one, but nevertheless, experiment until you find one that works for you. If your risk tolerance is high, there are some things you can do uncovered (intercourse not being one of them of course.) Get with the same women over and over again if they are exciting to you.
Isn't it amazing how men in developing countries don't seem to have any issues - they aren't surrounded by porn, they often have multiple wives and zero troubles in bed apparently, judging by the mass offspring they are able to produce.
Get back to the Stone Age if you want to fuck like a caveman, The Love Goddess
Here's a link to a post I made over a year ago. After basically going 0/50 over three years, I'm 50/53 in the last year (yep, I keep count!). You CAN re-train yourself. I owe LG a great debt. her advice is spot on.
Some of you might remember in your youth you were warned masturbation will make you go blind. Perhaps they actually meant if you did partake with yourself , you would become blind to the Womans Flesh that will be cometh upon your hands. lol.. Glad I have a simple mind so I didn't have to wait for the Collegiate translations and re train myself. Now if I can only figure out a way to not come so quick when she looks and feels so good..
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