most women with long hair know precisely that men -- or some men -- have hair fetishes. My ATF has waist-length hair and stresses it in her ads.
But consider--it's a professional's job to cater to the client's needs, desires and whims. My provider friends gladly provide all kinds of services without making judgments. That's one of the wonderful things about professional sex workers -- all desires are equal before them.
Don't have the least hesitancy about your hair fetish. Tell the provider about it. Talk about it. Get her to talk about her hair. Tell her what you'd like to do with her hair. Tell her how it makes you feel. If she's not receptive, she's not doing her job.
Your "fetish" is healthy and not harmful. Feed it, nurture it, and enjoy.
And if you ever want to revel in my ATF's thick, long straight black hair while she talks dirty to you, (or just remains silent) just PM me.
Dear davis123,
You are entirely within your DNA-driven ballpark to enjoy beautiful hair on women. One of the cross-cultural markers of "attractiveness" and an indicator of health and fertility is healthy hair. Thus, whether you live among the Bantus, the Unangax [former Aleutians] or the Amish, shiny, strong, abundant, healthy hair is a sign of being healthy and able to procreate. A full head of hair on women is a sign of high estrogenic function - perfect for making offspring. In fact, when women trail into menopause, they often experience hairloss - a consequence of diminished hormone production. So yes, your primate brain kicks into gear when it sees a potential mating object.
Now as to the length, that may be an adaptive function of demonstrating just how healthy straight hair can look. In certain African cultures, or ethnic groups where women have naturally tightly curled hair, women display elaborately braided hair, in some cases without much length; in any case, your preference for looooong hair may be just that - it means more to you than say, feet or breasts, just to name a few other "fetishized" body parts.
As to women being aware of their sexuality as related to hair..hmm....wonder what ze French would have to say about that? In French culture, the "gamine" is a celebrated sex object - the young, fresh, nubile girl/woman, usually with smaller breasts and loooong legs - and a short, boyish hair cut á la Jean Seberg in Godard's "Breathless."
Then again, long, tousled bed-head hair has been around since we admitted that women do get wild in bed, which means from the late 50s onward...from Jane Fonda to Pamela Anderson, the hair is there for everyone to admire. So yes, certainly in our culture, women with long hair are well aware of their effect on helpless men. In addition, most fashion models since the 1960s, with the exception of Twiggy and some other outliers, have had long hair, although waist-length seems to be a minority after all.
Among Orthodox Jews [egads, I'm really on a roll here, folks, sorry] the shaydel [wig] is there to cover a married woman's hair, as it is considered "her crowning glory" among those who write halachic laws. This probably meant for guys not to get any ideas about a woman already spoken for. And of course, we've got our assortment of Islamic hadit about how much hair should be displayed - no comment on that one, just go to your morning paper's international section, and there seems to be a layout featuring everything from Palestinian tightly knotted headscarves, to the Iranian look where half the head is exposed [is this one of Ahmadinejad's 'reforms,' I wonder.]
Now what does LG think of all this, including your "fetish?" Here goes: INDULGE, INDULGE, INDULGE. Is there anything nicer [for anyone, short or longhaired] than getting your hair caressed, brushed gently, or fondled in general? Doubt it. And what a sexy activity to partake in. For both of ya! Personally, I live in a Robert Plant/Led Zep dream, and wish that all men would run around in tight leather pants, pointy boots, ruffled shirts and looooong, wavy hair. That's why it's a phantasy, LOL.
My only hesitation on that one would be if you happened upon a female who had hair extensions, a removable hair piece, or just elaborately styled hair. She might get a little touchy about anyone fiddling with it...so we should perhaps issue a qualifier on that one: Always ask, and I bet 9 times out of 10, ye shall receive!
Follicular Attraction, hihi,
the Love Goddess
