HTC: Not unusual to see an SB try to change (reduce) the terms of the agreement without adjusting the allowance down accordingly.  Even in (especially in?) a longer-term arrangement, there may be a tendency towards entitlement. Perhaps one way to help her see your point: Ask her how she would feel if you asked her to stay overnight for the same allowance.  

   
 Friday night, M&G dinner with a pot I've been texting with.  Cute Indian girl, 7/10.  Dinner was a bust.  She didn't give me a hug when we met.  Conversation was stale.  And she gave a lame half hug after.  
   

HTC: Agreed-not a good sign. But don't give up hope yet. It may be cultural, and she may be uncomfortable with PDA's (Public Displays of Affection) in general or just with older men she just met. Maybe follow up and remind her that you are happy to help her with her bills when you see her again. A subtle reminder of why she's in the Sugar Bowl-The money.  

 
 Saturday night, one of my B roll girls was available.  Slender black girl, 7/10.  Super cool.  Her work schedule is all over the place so we can't meet often.  She even said if we stopped having sex she'd still want to hang out with me because we are friends.  

 
HTC: Heard this before... Only once has it gone down like that. My mid-20's Latina has gained a lot of weight, she's over 170 lbs. now and I just can't. But I like her, and I want to see her succeed in her career goals. I still give her financial and life-skill advice and we grab a meal or some hang time on occasion. But I'm not providing allowance anymore.  

   
 Sunday was with my main.  She's always amazing.   She's a 10 in the looks department.  After pushing 3 years it's still great to spend time with her.  
   
 Monday was a planned meetup with a B roll girl but her period started so she cancelled.  She's an asian 10/10.  Will see her next week  

 
HTC: I wish I understood why the hottest Asians (10/10 spinners) are so elusive - except when they are not. I really haven't cracked the code. In Los Angeles (and in Silicon Valley) there are plenty of Asians on the site. But getting a response, let alone a M&G is a lot more work than it should be. Even if you can get to a M&G, converting to BCD at a reasonable allowance is rare. Not impossible, as demonstrated by my 22-yr-old Viet SB (started dating when she was 19), just difficult.  

   
 Tuesday, had another Indian pot.  She said she was nervous, never had an arrangement before.  So I told her let's do a M&G lunch.  She walks in, way hotter than the pics 10/10.  My tongue almost came out.  We sit down, conversation is great.  I'm thinking she's gonna want to go forward on our next date.  She drops the bomb of, I'm comfortable with you, let's have sex now and start this thing.  Hell yes!  Amazing head game.  Great sex.  Begs me to shoot in her face and mouth.  After, she asks for us to go get tested together so we can go bare from now on.  She said she hasn't dated anyone in a long time and really like how relaxed and chill I was.  

 
HTC:  Nothing breeds success like success! In the last year, I had similar unexpected offers at a M&G.  Both times I just wasn't able to extend to BCD due to various reasons.  I am going to adjust my plans to allow for the insta-BCD to happen when offered.  Enjoy your sub-continental journeys!  
   

 So recap, picked up a new regular SB.  May be losing a semi-regular.  Hit it with a part time.  Missed a date with a part time.  Dodged a bullet on one. And got to spend time with my main.  Still a good weekend.