One of my SB's texted me today after a 4 hour meeting this morning with fantastic BCD time. She says she does not want to see me anymore as she worries about the other SB giving me a STD that she might pick up. There's probably other issues but that's what she said.   I've been seeing her for about 3 months. Why stupid? We were supposed to meet Monday again and I was planning on giving her a christmas present of 2.5 times her usual arrangement. Lesson: never break up with a SD before Xmas.  Wait till afterwards! Of course, maybe she has a new SD who is more generous and the joke is on me! LOL

Any other SB mistakes you guys have seen? I know there has to be some doozies.

And she didn't want to contaminate her main Papi..So you're lucky..or are you? Better check yourself out.

Actually bbfs not an issue. STD was just an excuse for her. Too complicated to discuss what I think are the real reasons but the post was about bad timing on her part. Latest update, got txt 5 min ago asking to meet Monday after all. She is prob a bit BSC. Lol

Consider the site. Bi polar and broke is tge norm. Just recognize that reality and expect it.

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and I have rarely encountered it in the Sugar world, more often with pros.  But one stands out to me.  I had exchanged many, many messages with a hot young SB and finally we had agreed to meet.  She had asked for more $ than I usually give, but I said ok.  When I was at our location, showered, pill taken, ready to go she txts me and asks if I am expecting intimacy.  WTF of course I am.  Then she says she never does intimacy for less than (insert crazy astronomical figure here). I told her we had an agreement, she replies by sending me amazingly sexy pictures.  So OK, I cave, she shows up, and I have the most marvelous time screwing this super hot, super young, super skilled SB.  But I will never date her again since she manipulated me. And whether you call her an amateur or pro, I'll never recommend her to any of my friends.

I had essentially the opposite experience today.  

I had traded texts with a POT SB, probably a pro, a few weeks ago. Why "probably a pro"? Because her first text to me was "so when we meet tomorrow babe can you spoil me with xxx to help me pay off my school book debt?"  Now, we had only exchanged numbers on SA and we had not met face to face or by phone. This was her 1st message to me by text.  Told her I was down for xxx-200 if she was down for indoor fun. She countered with xxx-150 and I agreed. Schedule didn't work out on my end the next day and I texted her to hold off for a few weeks. (Other POTs SB's to see!).  

This morning, 4 weeks later, the following texts occur:  

SB: "Hey babe lets meet. what are you doing today"  
Me: Not much. just hanging at home
SB: can I come over I still need that help
Me: What do you have in mind?  
SB: I can come over relax with you maybe have some fun. where do live
Me: Near (Location). Are you close?
SB: yes babe can you help me with 500 when I come over we were suppose to meet a long time ago. send me your address, I'm getting ready now
Me: I can do xxx-200 today babe
SB: Can you do at least xxx-150? send your address
Me: Sure. what time? (address sent)
SB: I'm getting ready now, then will leave
Me: Ok
SB: ok Ill tell you when I leave
Me: Cool  

 
35 minutes of radio silence later  
Me: Are you on your way here?
20 minutes later:  
Me: Hi. whats up?  

over the next 3 hours, a few more queries from me. no reply.  

Finally, 4 hours after she told me she was getting ready and leaving:  
SB: so sorry babe just woke up I was sleep for a really long time.  
Me: (Thinking who the F sleeps from 2 pm to 6 pm besides strippers?) Oh
I wait 20 minutes:  
Me. Sorry love. Can't meet this late. My buddies are on the way over.  
SB: It's okay babe we can meet soon.  

Honestly I was tempted to ask her if she wanted to triple her sugar by taking on me and my buds, but I refrained. (Any one ever did THAT with an SB??)  

So the analysis could be:  
1. She was trolling her collected phone numbers of POT SD's since her Big Money SD may have cancelled. I was one of the 1st to accept a meet, and  
2. Since I low-balled her on the amount, she may have had a hit on another SD who went for the higher offer, and  
3. She just bailed on me for the bigger payout, then  
4. She offered the lame excuse in hopes that I was so desperate for her pussy that I will accept it and let her reschedule when she doesn't have a richer (or stupider) SD available.  

What ever her reasons, she goes into my "don't bother" bin unless I'm very horny, no one else is available and I can low ball her to less than $150 to meet

I wouldn't say the norm, but these things are not uncommon.  ADD is also prevalent.

Well it certainly sounds like she was juggling balls, hoping to find the richest pair! You're better off without her. As for my experience, as soon as I agreed to my SB's high dollar request I knew it would be a one time thing so I damn well better get my money's worth as much as possible. It turned out to be a memorably hot session, she was fantastic! But unless she agrees to a more reasonable "market rate" for her companionship, I won't be seeing her again. Too many more affordable fishies in the sea!

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