What would the S.D. brain trust do? Ok, went BCD with my pot S.B. our next date. Our first date was very vanilla, no talk of arrangement terms at all..we had good chemistry. So our next date we agree to bcd. And so we do the deed, we cuddle. Now she brings up the sugar. Ok, I'm all ears hit me w/the damages baby I'm thinking. And soooo, she says I've got a 500.00 a month credit card i need payed off every month. Ok, i can live with that..so I'm thinking. I'll just give her what i can each meet until it's $$500.00 thought wow!! Got a winner here.  She's Brazilian babe, 5'7 great ass. Nice D set. Brunette 8/8 on the TER scale.. so then she also interjects that she'll be going on vacation to colorado in 2 months. Ok, yada, yada,yada. That's all she says. So, i pay her 200.00 date over. Next date now she says oh..ive been thinking. When i told you i just needed my cc/bill paid that's true, but, i need 200.00 ppm and 500 along with it once a month..gulp. Wtf! 700 outlay all at once i said. Her: yes, can you be flexible with me like that if I'm willing to be flexible when you're low on cash?? At this point, if i do a Ggag and just say NO! Think it'll be over..(

Agree on how much per month total and how often bcd. 200 pet meet plus 500 isnt bad if you are seeing her 6 times a month.

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Tank binding why you think it's already over?

You’ve just become her ATM. congrats

If you give a monthly allowance in advance, you can't be sure you're going to get exactly what you expect.  The SB's lives are complicated, as are ours.  A simple pay per meet arrangement is the best.  

I have seen ones who were willing to see me weekly for an agreed monthly stipend and others who didn't want money at all.  Don't understand the SB saying "don't think of me like a hooker" yet want PPM.

As others have mentioned $200 PPM plus $500 once a month really isn't that bad if you are seeing her even once a week if she really is "all that" $200 X 4 plus $500 is only $1,300 a month which only works out to $325 PPM which seems pretty reasonable.

 
Here is the issue I see, I see moving goal posts here and I would give long odds that this will not by her "final number" and that with each successive month she is going to ask for more and more and at some point her final straw will indeed break the camel's back.  I bet you the next increase she asks for will be in regards to her Colorado trip, which for all you know will be with her "real" BF at your expense. So I would go into this with the mind set of it being VERY temporary  and with "risk mitigation" being at the forefront of how you treat your "relationship" with this woman, and remember it's unlikely that your relationship is even going to make it to the two month mark which is when she plans on going on vacation.

 

If it were me, I would continue to give her the $200 PPM with the understanding that as long as you are both happy with things that you will pay her CC at the end of each and every month you are together.  If you see her several times over the next month and are happy with her, then pay the $500, if not you are free to break it off. If she tries to strong arm you to pay it now offer to make the minimum payment and that you will pay it off at the "end" of the month, not the beginning.  If you are lucky you can enjoy several sessions with her before the bitch in her comes out, and if that happens the week "before" you have to fork over the extra $500 so be it. lol

Hi GaGam. Yea, i broke it off. After a couple BCD dates and 400.00 ppm + hotels/ expensive meals, it just pissed me off that see originally agreed to just the CC card bill, then she goes and tacks on more..basically she F%#*ing lied to me..im sure you'll agree if i say that honesty is paramount in the sugar bowl..and yes, she did have a BF that wouldn't do Daty with her, seriously. One of her many motivations for going on SA believe it or not..