Have not been on since last fall, went back on last week.

This is not a hooker site, and setting up a M&G with an SB is nothing like scheduling an appointment with your lawyer or plumber.  They are as skittish and flighty as a deer in your backyard at dawn.  
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Take your time and wade through the flakes. You will find what you are looking for and you will be delighted when you do.  
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Remember that success metrics in the Sugar Bowl are much more like batting averages than test scores. A .300 batting average (or 3 hits out of 10 at bats) is a major league player.  
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Get back on deck and start swinging away...  
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Life is good.
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The Cat

Sorry to hear about your tribulations.  Each of us here have been through too many "no shows" to count.  What we've learned is that SB's are a special type of person and understanding that, and adapting your behavior is the key to success.  By most accounts the ROI on a successful arrangement with a SB far exceeds most other relationships (except perhaps a civie FWB).

Thing is guys all the ones I set up with have been on the site.  They are not new.
They all confirmed that day they were meeting later on.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sGoGEjvvWrQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ku2752x_Lac
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No score for bobby_orr ... but Bobby Orr doesn't give up!

The sugar world is also very "streaky" I go through streaks on Seeking all the time. Sometimes I will have five or six M&G's with POTs that lead immediately to BCD, other times I will go through a streak of no shows, catfishes and women with GPS.  

The "high road" is not degrading them... I would think it's better to say something like, "I waited for as long as I could before I had to leave -- I hope you are okay, and that we can try another time."  

I've had similar luck lately.  To GG's point, always be planning for the next one.  In my case even with the great ones, they flake out or go MIA and I'm back to square one.  Always be closing!

There is potential for success in Boston.  That's my neighborhood bowl too.  But yeah, lots of flakes and scammers here.

Let's agree to share credit for this one, GaGa. It's not a new theme for me as I've been mongering for 3+ decades, and I'm sure it's not new to you either...  
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But Plan B really works on two levels:  
1. Have a back up if she (or you lol) flakes.  
2. Literally have a couple of doses of "Plan B" on hand just in case. I've had more than one short-term unintended result and offered up a Plan B pill to ensure I didn't get a long-term unintended result. (Note: Find a way to casually WATCH her take the pill.).    
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Having these on hand means:  
1. You don't have to trust that she will go to a drugstore and actually buy the pill.
2. You can pre-buy on Amazon for a substantial discount (~$34) over retail store prices (~$80).  
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Life is good.
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The Cat

Have another meet up tonight.  Just confirmed she will be there, said she would

She is real and is in college.  Know someone who has seen her but he saw her over a year ago
She is not acting like anything he told me about her.  She is acting very distant and somewhat pro like
but has not brought up any talk about money or anything for that matter

Proceed with caution, Bobo!  
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If she is down for BCD, make sure you address allowance in some way before her clothes come off.  You don't want to pull out and her her say "That'll be $800, Daddy."  
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The Cat

I thought I read about a phenomenon where by -- correct me if I'm wrong -- if the girl looks at your profile on an app, it may not trigger that she viewed it. But I may be imagining things.

So many acronyms! What are BCD and POT? Thanks!

She did not show, as I thought would happen.  She confirmed she would be there an hour before our scheduled meeting time.  She also said "oh, nice" when she saw pictures of me.  

You agree that the women in this area are difficult, have attitudes, and suck for the most part?

You can search all these acronyms in past forum posts.  There's a treasure trove of valuable info if you look for it before asking someone here to provide an answer that's already been presented hundreds of times.
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BCD = Behind Closed Doors = Sex
POT = Potential SB or Potential SD. When used in this context without the "SB" or "SD" it generally means SB (Sugar Baby), and refers to an SD's (Sugar Daddy's) preliminary interaction with a SB on the site.
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Life is good.  
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The Cat

Right now definitely yeah.  A year ago, different story.  This stupid pandemic is fucking up everything.

I’m in a quiet area where people tend to be more traditional in their views of hooking-up/dating activities.  

We’ve all had runs like that and there are definitely a large mount of flakes. Was on a trip last week for most of the week and so I set up two meets.  Both were supposed to be dinners and both I had been corresponding for a few weeks. Neither brought up much in regards to the benefits and we agreed to discuss. The first night was about 15 minutes away. Waited outside the restaurant for about 15 minutes and she finally said be there in a bit. Enjoyed a nice meal by myself as she never showed. Next morning was car troubles, etc. end of the day wasted 15 minutes outside the restaurant standing but generally not inconvenienced too much as I was expecting it to be more a meet and greet. Fast forward to the next night and set up dinner at a place right next to my motel. She communicated the entire time and was a few minutes late but she had let me know.  She let me know she was in the garage and I walked out to meet her. Black one piece dress and was absolutely stunning and exactly as she represented herself to be. Went in had a a really nice meal and got to know one another. End of the meal she grabs my hand and says, we should get out of here. Walked right to my hotel, went upstairs. She goes in the bathroom and comes out in only a lace thong and a bra. Game on, 2.5 hours of fun twisting, flipping and turning and was completely spent.  End of the night, I walked her to her car and have been texting regularly. Just this weekend, we agreed to a set amount of benefit but not starting till next week (and I’m back on the road and meeting her tomorrow). Benefit level was completely reasonable and at about 1/3 of what I would pay in the hobby given the length of time and fun that was had. It takes patience and you have to sort thru a lot of trash to find the proverbial treasure. When you do, it’s magnificent. Stay the course Daniel Son...