LG, thank you for your advice/this service - it is great! A fellow hobbiest raves about a provider he has seen for a while. More recently, he said their encounters often involve some very intense rubbing. He raves about how good it feels. Sounds a bit risky. Is the risk of STDs and pregnancy low, especially when the juices start flowing so to speak? Thanks!
i.e. heavy genital to genital grinding.... much more common than most will admit when you've got great chemistry and/or you've been seeing each other awhile.
Main risk is herpes..... you are at full exposure there and one in four women have it, one in five men.
So..... assess your risk tolerance and act accordingly.
I agree with OhmygodwhathaveIdone - camel sliding probably only occurs between provider and client that have good chemistry and have been seeing each other for a while.
Reality is, he will probably be f**king her BB sometime in the near future. That is the next step, the natural progression from what they are doing now. Eventually both of them will get carried away and allow penetration to occur.
Is the provider on birth control? Probably. Is the provider "clean?" Probably. Is your friend willing to stake his marriage and his health on a guess? Probably not. Tell him to stop seeing her.
On the other hand, I have been involved in several BB episodes with providers - never caught so much as a cold. I would not use my experience as a crutch, as I consider myself to be more lucky than smart.
Ummmm....lower that what, gracchus,
Lower than contracting HIV/gonorrhea/chlamydia/syphilis/herpes/HPV through barebacking? Yup, it is. Higher than when using a condom? Yup, it is. Pregnancy - most likely a non-issue, although there will always be that one poster who will bring up the intrepid sperm that climbed the Mound of Venus, crawled into the vagina and found a lonely egg to mate with.
But herpes (as another poster pointed out)? Yes, I would worry about that one. Not to mention trichomoniasis, which probably is the most common and which is quite easy to contract this way.
The vagina is the most common site of infection in women, and the urethra is the most common site of infection in men. The parasite is transmitted through penis-to-vagina intercourse or vulva-to-vulva contact with an infected partner. Women can acquire the disease from infected men or women, but men usually contract it only from infected women.
Symptoms are itch, redness, and for women a really nasty, fish-smelling thick discharge. Some men can also be asymptomatic, which means that they could have great "slider sex" with a provider, get "trich" [no pun intended] and then go home and infect the partner/SO. Not great, IMHO.
Tell your friend to stop this, please,
The Love Goddess
camel toe slide risky business !
''A form of sex without penentration. The man lies on his back the woman stradels her man and grinds herself back and forth along the mans erect penis having one lip of her vagina on either side of the mans shaft.
"I didn't have any condoms so she gave me a camel toe slide instead!"
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=camel%20toe%20slide