I'm in my early 50's now...and this has bothered me since high school.

When erect, I'm maybe 6" tops.....but I have been told more than once really above average thickness. Is 6" below average ?

But what really bothers me, when not aroused....it is really small.....like maybe an inch or so....really embarrassing to remove boxers unless I'm at least partially aroused.

Even in HS , I was reluctant to remove pants in locker room.....

Now my teen age son, watching him get out of the shower ...he's hung like a horse, guess it skipped a generation.

As I hobby more and maybe date in real life...it's really becoming a worry for me.

Please don't try to make me feel better, be honest.

Thanks

And yes, it's good info, so I wouldn't be the one to dispute it.

As for your penis, yeah, it's pretty average. In addition, please take into account that there are some ethnic variations as well. As for your hung teenaged son - he may be huge when getting out of the shower, but his erect penis might not get much bigger.

As for providers, please don't worry. They've seen it all. An average penis is not going to create any discomfort or drama. As long as the hydraulics are working, there's nothing to worry about.

As to civilians, well, all I can tell you is that there are a bunch of men out there without penises (yep, female-to-male transsexuals) and they do just fine in the dating arena. To my knowledge, women don't break up or quit dating men because they have micropenises - it's men with very small brains that are always in danger of being dumped.

Please stop worrying about your average penis,
The Love Goddess

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Lets also take a look at some the positive aspects of being average.
Greek. I have only had one provider decline me due to my size.
DT. Not a guarantee, but some of them try.
Sinking in all 6" in MISH, priceless

Funny, sometimes while watching porn, I actually feel bad for the more endowed guys, the ones who can only get half of it in.  

I was watching the DVD of the 1998 porn film “Double Feature.” (Skipping over the sex scenes it is a great satire of 1950’s sci-fi movies. One reviewer said, “Ed Wood Jr. might have made this movie, but probably not on purpose.”) Jonathan Morgan directed the movie and it stars Serenity. (I’ve always wondered if Joss Whedon named the spaceship in “Firefly” after her, but I’ll probably never know the answer to that question.)

The movie was so much fun that I ran it again listening to the commentary by Morgan and Serenity. In the commentary Morgan asks Serenity if penis size matters. Her reply was something like, “It certainly does. I prefer small to average. I have trouble managing the big ones. Someone like Randy Spears with an average size penis is just perfect.” So there you have it. It is only the opinion of one woman, of course.

In a similar vein one escort I know said, “I don’t like anything over eight inches. It hits my cervix and hurts.”

Based on my own personal experience I don’t think size matters too much. As LG says, there are lots of things about you that are more important to a woman than your penis size. However, I have come to suspect that how hard I get does matter—at least to my ATF. A hard penis is a pretty good indicator that I am turned on by her and that seems to have a significant effect on how turned on she gets.

I am grateful for the study info. Since I've started taking the 'little blue pill' I'v been complimented by at least 3 providers (who I trust enough to not just be talking) on size. Happened once before the pills.
My personal measure is, if a girl can put her hand around it & still have a lot left to work on with lips & tongue, I'm pretty happy. I did have one provider get a bigger condom out of her collection.  Not bad for an old Irish guy! And I recently had a pretty experienced provider who couldn't DT all of it (I saw her gagging from trying!). So I'm happy with mine (its almost always made ME happy!)..
As always;YMMV.

Size doesn't matter.  It's how you use it that counts.  No matter what any girl says, no one wants to be faced with a 3' horse like object that's going to pop out their throat during vaginal intercourse.  If you really want an ego boost and a great way to make yourself feel big, see a lady with little hands.  You know what they say about girls with little hands...

OK I know this has been talked about to Death!  There are some, maybe a lot of woman that enjoy a bigger guy. I am 5.5 maybe 6 and there are just certain positions I can't do because "its" not long enough. And within reason, I think most woman want to know a man is inside of them. I have had many lovers in my life ad all say its how you use it. But I my ex and I were in the swinging word, larger was ALWAYS better!

vagina.  And the answer is in the first two or maybe three inches.  So if you've got enough length to work those nerve endings with some skill, then when the lights are out you should be just as good as any larger man.  Especially since I've yet to meet a woman that enjoyed having her cervix slammed into.

Back in my prime I was unable to have sex with many of the Korean providers I encountered during my business trips to that country.  There's absolutely nothing to be gained by being too big for your partner to accommodate.  They didn't have fun, and neither did I.  In fact, many times I was left extremely unsatisfied and sexually frustrated because of the problems of having such a small partner.  

You mentioned certain positions you can't do because of the length of your penis, but that may not be the real problem.  I have difficulty staying inside a woman when she's on top and lays down on my chest.  I've also had a similar situation with girls that had bubble butts that made doggie style very difficult.  So not everyone fits well with everyone else, but I've never blamed my penis for the incompatibility.

Chances are you've got all you really need and the quicker you just accept that and move on to improving your game, the sooner you'll start enjoying more satisfying sex.  Just remember,  like every other aspect of our appearance, our bodies or our personality, not everyone is attracted to the same things and one size rarely fits all.

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