I am in my early 30's and typically refrain from masturbation for three days before my appointment. During those three days there are times when I feel extremely horny as I fantasize to porn. If you tease yourself but dont ejaculate, will the "horny hormones" stay in your system? Or is better not to look at any porn while you abstain?

Dear homersimpson085,

Everyone is an individual with an individual sex drive and arousal threshold. My recommendation is to abstain from viewing porn for several days prior to engaging with a "live" female - if libido, erectile or orgasmic function are issues.

If not, then some men can get extremely excited, as porn truly gets their imagination going.  You'll have to experiment to find out in which category you belong.

Have fun trying to figure it out
The Love Goddess

I'm mid 50s and, personally, I find it helpful to start 'getting ready' at least a day in advance of an appointment by watching some porn and stimulating myself almost to completion several times. I seem to get a stronger erection and it significantly increases the chance that I'll get a second cup if I've only scheduled an hour or so.

As always, eating well and making sure I'm hydrated make a big difference, too.

What works for me,VIAGRA!!!!