Would love to hear from all of you on here about your latest successes [and failures] on SA. Have you found a quality SB partner who fulfills your needs for an affordable allowance or PPM? Do you find the process still worthwhile to pay the SA monthly membership fees and sorting through the dirt to find the diamonds? I see some seekers are giving up on the process as not being worth it anymore, but some of the posts on here do show successes so please feel free to share them here.
This is not off seeking (I have done those too, see my other posts) but more a semi escort to sugar route. Happened to meet someone (26yo white girl from Midwest living in SoCal) through a referral - she had just started in the escort biz a week into it to supplement her other business income.
Had a great 2h meet at her place (she didn’t realize she was supposed to kick me out of her apartment after 1h lol). Anyways we agreed that we both Liked each others company and I proposed to her a long term arrangement (weekly) at 2/3 her escort rate (mid 3 figs to me) to which she agreed. Now I see her for dinner every week and then get together at her place right after, once we did a movie date as well
she is maybe seeing others too I have no idea and I don’t care — anyways it works great for me as she is really hot and great in bed. And keeps me posted on her life w pics etc throughout the week. Planning a weekend trip to Santa Barbara together in august, excited for that.
Thats a true success story am2014! This is interesting as I met a provider recently who had previously been a SB when she was a student living in Arizona and going to college. She's now a highly paid well-reviewed escort in LA. But she did say it really helped her through college and she loved the arrangement and got her acclimated to the business, even though it was only with one guy, she learned how to interact with a man in a paid situation that was also a but more like dating than escorting. She was 19 and he was 67! She said she found her SD through Seeking as well.
Meeting an escort just getting started or perhaps one just getting out of the biz but who wants a more steady thing with one person and proposing a SB arrangement is for sure another option outside of SA if the opportunity 'arises' [he he he].
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To be fair, there are still some limits w this one - cannot go bare for ex for my own safety and for hers. Whereas w another civilian non pro SB last year where I was reasonably sure she wasn’t seeing anyone else and I exchanged sti tests, it was total bareback heaven for the few months it lasted lol
Seeking has been progressively getting more time intensive if you really want someone good at a reasonable ppm.
The good looking young ones have gps syndrome or get snapped up fast, and the average quality of other women on there is degrading (I like them thin and tall). I’d rather not have anyone than settle for mediocre when I am paying
I think the consensus expressed here by experienced guys is that it's worth staying on Seeking as long as you are still 'seeking' something. That even if you have 1 or 2 (or more) good ones, they have a habit of flaking and it takes time to sort and vet.
If you want to give up, what are the other choices? Going back to the escort route or maybe an alt site site Secret Benefits? This is the main game and if you stay on there you can get a sense of scammers versus pros versus regular girls.
But remember these are relationships so it's not the same experience as escorts.
I have a good SB I've been seeing for 3-4 months almost weekly for dinner and BCD at a rate that's below most pros in my area. I'm trying to get a travel partner but she doesn't really seem to be available for that, so still looking.
Yes, it's clear by all I've read that if you want the foot traffic you need to rent space at the mall, so to speak. By staying on Seeking you learn what is what, who the players and scammers are and you can keep an eye on things. It's the cost of doing business.
If you cancel every month. Seeking will offer you a 20% discount to entice you to continue. I do it every month.
I’ve received the same offers. Also, received an additional offer to join WYP by using my SA membership and receive 50 points towards WYP.
Nice tip! Thanks AsianManNOVA!