Well we had a date and I was hard the whole time just about.  When we finally kissed I didnt cum.  However there was a lot of pre cum in my briefs. The next date we had I got a very surprising bbbjtccim because it was that time of the month.  Then the next date we finally made love and it was incredible.   Sorry for not posting earlier, but have been busy.  Thank you to everyone who gave me some advice.  I will be leaving the hobby as long as she is in my life.  Everyone take care!