Re: Contacting a Provider

I want to thank you especially.  I read somewhere that I was supposed to be business like - i.e., not refer to anything other than wanting to get together.  And I'll check my spell checker.  Geez - can't believe I did that.  

I'm nervous about calling somebody cold.  Maybe I'm worried about getting "caught".  

Again, thank you.

L.G. response about contacting provider
Posted by Bootzie58, 1/26/2009 8:44:07 PM  

Dear L.G.  I must say You are amazing  in your example of what we should write in our initial contact with the ladies.  I will use with your permission.  VERY succinct and complete thanks

BG pretty much said it all. A little more detail and as LG mentioned a little more personal. Give her more information and try to sell yourself a little.

Dear PittPanther,

Unfortunately the same principle that operates for K-Mart and Target does NOT apply here. This is particularly evident when it comes to the very successful providers who charge accordingly and can cherry-pick their clientele. If anything, we are dealing with evolutionary psychology principles where obtaining a scarce resource commands some effort. With this, I mean that a well-reviewed, desirable, even "esteemed" provider can pick her price and her gentleman, since she has an ample selection to choose from. This is no different than engaging in male-male competition for the chieftain's daughter or the bravest knight fighting the most dangerous battle to finally break the hymen of the virginal princess on the coveted wedding night. It's all about competition for scarcity. And in every society, in every animal group, women are seen as valuable resources. After all - no women, no progeny.

N.b. that this doesn't obviate the fact that women are still treated as second-class citizens and as chattel in the more traditional societies. But a valuable resource they are, and a valuable resource they will continue to be, at least from a mating standpoint. Men compete to mate with women, in every society and in every culture. It's not the other way around.

Your principle would indeed apply if the girl (or provider) in question had a lesser perceived value, as in divorcee, widow, or, in traditional cultures, "used up" by many men for very little money. Massage parlors, brothels and other sexual service establishments are certainly evidence of this. But the way things stand among mammals, primates and certainly among homo sapiens - the guy who can present himself in the most favorable light is the one who gets to enjoy the most valuable resource. And in this case, the most beautiful, the higher-priced and the escorts who for whatever reason occupy a higher position in the escortian hierarchy - following human propensity for hierarchical stratification - they have the power to hit the reply button or simply delete, based on the fact that there are 10 more emails written by eager men who want to get at the exclusive, somewhat elusive honey pot.

Hunters, gatherers, all in the chase,
the Love Goddess

a girl as you would say, "with any sense" is screening For personality as well as references and credentials.
I prefer to see only the Gentlemen who first off interest me, for what ever reason. Usually a sweet voice mail or email that reflects their personality.
They screen well and have references, a must but all this without the personaslity I am interested in, I will most likely just pass as Not my cup of tea.

Some times it seems that there are men here who are under the impression we should be happy anyone calls us and just see anyone with the correct donation. How dare We of all people be picky after all he has $$$.  It's not all about that for many.  Picking and choosing who you see and by our own criteria does single out those we have No desire to see under any circumstances even if he had twice the correct amount of cash.

This is a business run on an individual basis,and no it is NOT kmart or walmart or 7/11, where having cash can buy anyone what they want in those stores, but if a reference is needs so you will understand, it's like an exclusive club that you are wanting to become a member of. She, the Lady decides out of all her persuers who she wishes to spend time with.  If for what ever reason, you are turned down, all I can say is she may Not feel it's a good match.  I believe this is key in making the ultimate experience for Our clients. We know ourselves, what works for us and what will not. If somehow she just knows you are not her type of client it truely is best she pass as to avoid any complications.
You wouldn't see someone who you were not interested in, why would you think it would be any different on this side.  
Seeing clients you are not going to have a good connection with can really be a total mistake in many ways. It can make longevity of this business for many woman much more pleasant.

Customer service?  If I choose not to see you, You are not a client of mine so there for there is no "customer service"
Bottom line...be sweet read her website reviews figure out if her personality is of your liking and then politely contact her.

I have had emails I do just delete, some r just way out there. And some men would have this additude, so responding back to someone I am not interested in is useless, and could be taken the wrong way.
Some people are just never happy is all there is to it.

Hey Pitt. I have to agree with you on this one. I state on my website that I answer all emails and I do. Even the ones I would not see. I keep a text file with standard answers for a number of genres of emails and it takes no time to cut and paste these in and send them off.

I reply with what I need and 80% of the time have no trouble getting it. Those that stall and mess around get one of my "template" emails and then I'm done with them.

If someone is going to take the time to email me, the least I can do is reply.