I had two this weekend that wanted to text, so what the hell. They both used the exact same wording (script). I died laughing. They both start off sending a generic photo or two of an attractive blonde. Followed by leading questions. It was so easy to see where this was going but it was fun too! I figured if they are going to waste my time, then I will waste there's too. I got entertainment out of it so it really wasn't a waste of my time. It filled in the gaps between sending and receiving messages from POTs.
That's so common these days. I had a POT this morning who I had been texting withnover the weekend finally spring the "guess what? I just started an onlyf*s page over the weekend." 🤣🤣
This morning I tagged an “SA” profile as “Favorite”. Later this morning I receive an email introducing herself mentioning she wants a very generous daddy. I replied asking what she considered very generous. Her reply was to text her. I texted and she replied she’s a hoe and was explicit in regards to sex. Then, she requested I purchase her videos and pictures. I declined by saying, “No thank you.” I never mentioned anything sexual. She texted again she wanted $500 per meet depending on how freaky she is. I never replied. A couple of hours later she texted mentioning that if I didn’t work things out with her, she would contact police and report me for wanting to buy sex since she has the messages. She further mentioned she has my physical address. I have nothing to worry about but it’s aggravating with sugaring these days.
It's been a while but I too have had a few who threatened me with contacting the police. One was scary enough that I consulted a seasoned defense attorney. He assured me that individual cases like those are never prosecuted because they are impossible to prove. Especially, when you have been careful to never explicitly offer money for sex. I find this type of scam very depressing, but sooner or later, if you stay in the bowl, you may encounter it. It sounds like this didn't bother you too much, so congrats!
I was hesitant to post but believe that others should know what’s happening, be careful what information you give and what you say. When this person mentioned knowing my address (may or may not be true), I thought of the family folks.
Sending money in of itself is far from a crime. So if it follows “don’t forget to send me the $” kind of text, completely fine. The red flags are the ones who negotiate specific sex acts by text.
They always say they are not comfortable meeting right away so they want to start online by selling videos and pics. They will give you their cell phone numbers and want to talk offline right away. Before I would text them to see if they are willing to meet in person if I buy a video from them. Now I just delete the messages right away. It's getting to be tiring.
... are almost always a scammer. But I have done M&G's with newbie SB's who tell me they are still on the fence about making an arrangement. I tell them the same thing I tell the "online first" SB's:
"Hey, I'm happy to stay in touch and give you time to get to know me. I won't be providing any allowance until we both agree to an arrangement." I do not ask for any pics at all, but I tell her I'm happy to get whatever she wants to send me as a gift.
For the M&G waiters, I use the same approach and I even offer to take them to dinner (mid-price) a few more times to help them get comfortable. Again, zero allowance. This worked once about 5 years ago and it took 4 dates before she was ready. Worth the wait as the BCD time was exceptional. Since then, I have yet to see an SB agree to continue communications.
Note that in all situations, I take the offer seriously, but I decline to provide any funds in advance of a physical arrangement. Never burn bridges.
I never act like an asshole. I act nice. But it's important to note that "nice" does not equal "weak."
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