As much as I love intercourse I have problems getting full satisfaction from it - either the sensation isn't enough for a great orgasm (I always manage to cum however) or my body freezes while I cum causing my orgasm to sort of peeter out since I'm not thrusting any longer.
Handjobs though prove a different problem, the one I'm seeking ideas for. When properly lubed up the sensations are so intense that I squirm and wiggle and nearly jump out of my skin while I'm being stroked. During orgasm is entirely another problem -- I pretty much grab my partner's hand(s) immediately forcing them to stop stroking me. It's all just so intense.
Polar problems.
The one I really think I want to solve first is the handjob issue... I'd love to be able to rest back and just be pleasured, brought to orgasm and have it be full, lasting, and wonderful and not cut short as they always have been.
You are the happy owner of a sensitive penis and apparently misunderstood by women who love to yank on it like a pump handle. Ever try to tell them to go easy on you? Every have a pretty much handless blow job instead of a hand job? Or is that one taboo?
You will need to set limits if you are sensitive. Speak up in advance of the session and warn the ladies in question. In addition, you may like the use of feathers on your penis, or just someone blowing ON the penis, gently.
There are many ways to tease a penis into orgasm. Getting with a tantra provider may also provide a solution - they seem to take the gentle way out.
There are no bad recipients, only overactive givers, The Love Goddess
Expectations of more and more services have relegated the hand job to a sort of second class citizen in the hobby world, but there thrives one sector where the hand job is still taken seriously and that is the world of tantricas.
I've had some orgasmic episodes courtesy of these gals that exceed any other sensation I've had including the BB intercourse from my early days of hobbying (Pre-AIDS, it was not that uncommon.), or married life.
When a gal knows how to stroke the testicles with one hand while milking the lingham (tantric term for penis) with the other, and she carefully times the actions to slowly build and then hold back, the eventual orgasm can reach a ten on the intensity meter. Being able to caress and kiss the tantrica during this activity adds to the overall experience.
And for those who are justly concern with STDs, there is no safer sex.
Right on mrfisher, when did handjobs become the red-headed stepchild? There are definitely some ladies out there who have elevated the handjob to a freakin artform, my most satisfying and powerful orgasms have been achieved this way. I always take forever to cum but once a very talented lady made me cum in under one minute using very light pressure and moderate speed. She just knew exactly how and where to touch me and it was the most pleasurable O ever. Of course it is good to draw it out as well, the tantra ladies are quite good for that.
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