So as I have previously posted, I almost never message a POT SB first. The rare exceptions are when am travelling to another city for at least 3 days and want to set up a one-time, and when I see a local porn star that I want to talk to.
Otherwise the most proactive I will get is to view & favorite while my account is configured to notify her of being favorited.
My empiric (i.e.: not scientific) observations, and thereby implied question, about who contacts me first:
By Distance:
1. 15% are within 15 miles of me (In Los Angeles, that means a 30-minute or shorter drive). This is my sweet spot for distance
2. 60% are between 15 and 35 miles of mem but generally still in LA County (which at 502 sq. miles is HUGE!).
3. 20% are at least 35 miles away, including various states across the US.
4. 5% are from other countries, especially the Philippines.
By Age:
1. 10% are 18 to 21 (My sweet spot as it were)
2. 75% are 22 to 28 (My other sweet spot)
3. 15% are 29 or older, up to mid-fifties (Nope! Not gonna happen)
By Race:
1. Black 35%
2. Mixed 30% (My impression is that "mixed" in LA is about 90% black, possibly mixed with white, Asian or Latina. I think many black women on the site use "mixed" because they fear getting filtered out of searches if they use "black". Although my current #1 in my rotation is black, and my current #1 POT SB is black, I too, filter out black in my search as too many of the POT SB's I see in LA are in south central and are usually pro's being pimped by gangs. )
3. Latina 25% (I have had many 1st meets with local Latina's and a fair number of these have converted to BCD. But again many of the Latina's who live closer to the gangland areas are also being pimped by gangs. Hint, more than 3 tats is a bad sign.)
4. 10% Asian and Persians and others. Given my physical attractions to young, thin Asians (hey I'm 55, raised Jewish in the Valley - what do you expect?

, I wish this was the majority category for local POT's.
Note: so that means that Black + Mixed are about 65% of the messages I get. Not sure what about me "attracts" mostly black women, or if that is purely a function of the racial distribution of SB's on the site, or somewhere in between.
Volume/Frequency:
This is really a simple function of time spent on the site. They more I am on, the more I get. If I log on at least 2 hours a day for a week, I will typically get 5 to 15 messages sent to me. Of these, maybe 1 or 2 convert into a 1st meet and maybe half of those convert to BCD.
When I stay off the site, or go into stealth mode. The number drops to less than 3 messages a month.
So, anyone else want to share their demographic data?
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