third time I have posted this.  I hope it shows up this time.

Anyway, LG, i have an ATF that I have seen 6 or 7 times in the last year.  We seem to click really well both physically and conversationally.  Last time I was with her, when it came time to put on the party hat (which she has always taken care of) we went right to FS without the cover.  By that time in the encounter, only the little head was working.  As Robin Williams said, we are born with a  brain and a penis but only enough blood to allow one to function at a time.

Anyway, what has confused me is why would she do this?  I asked in an email later, and expressed concern not only for me but for her.  She would only respond that we won't do that again.

She is a very experienced and well reviewed provider.

I know this is specualtion, but why would she do this?

Huh, huh (Beavis and Butthead laughter,)
Duude...she was TURNED ON!!!!!! Kewl, huh? What isn't so kewl is if there's a bun baking in the oven, or some affliction transmitted to you. Well, by now you should know on both counts. But luckily, her big head is now working and she's vowed not to repeat the procedure. As to the psycho-medical speculation as to why she would do this, is maybe she was having her LH (luteinizing hormone surge) and you were nearby; or, she really, really digs you as a sex partner AND she was feeling extra frisky and in-the-heat-of-the-momentish. You've already seen each other 6 or 7 times, so that counts for something. You're not saying anything about falling for her beyond the sex, and that's good. Please keep it at nookie level and everything will continue to be swell..with party hats.

Dunno what to say beyond this. Yep, you're clicking and ticking alright. Don't let it become a habit .

Dang, I bet it felt gooood,
the Love Goddess



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This experience is certainly a carbon copy of mine.  I was with my ATF and we were having our first anal experience that was not going well so we decided to not pursue it.  We took the condom off and before we could put another one on I was inside her pussy coverless !  From there it was History.  We fell in love continued to have unprotected sex until the time we parted ways sadly for me.  I sure hope it's not the same provider.

with my regular atf but I only see her and no one else. She is very low volume. I haven't asked her if she does it with anyone else. Don't want to know the answer and for some reason I don't feel threatend. I have seen several threads about this on several boards. Must be happening more than we thought.

Thanks for the reply LG.  Of course there is at least one possible affliction that may not show up yet.

So it looks like this is a regular thing that happens. I was on my 6th date within 3 months with my ATF.  We were in a hottub going for round 2, and she just jumped me.  I really didnt realize what had happened until way into it.  But I have seen her 3 time since and it has never happened again.

run to get yourself tested. She is a risk to all of us.

Happened to me too. We're human.  The heat of the moment takes over and the blood drains from the cerebral cortex.  It does not justify the stupidity, though.  What else can you say?  Not much except try to be smart and play safe.

I'm certainly guilty of this TOO many times in the past but I played at this game for over 14 years.  Now I'm out for financial and other reasons.