Look, I've tried this 3 times. It's a BAD IDEA!
What you gain:
1. Unlimited sex for free (because she's not paying rent) - except you don't get that. You are busy, she is busy, she may still want extra cash for sex and it just never happens the way you thought it would.
2. No travel time to go BCD - except there is. She needs a ride to school, work, doctor, family, etc. And you are definitely NOT going to loan her your car! Or she needs cash for gas, food, clothes, nails and hair (for a date with someone else?) or phone bill, etc.
3. Bonding with that special girl - except not really. She's still going to spend time with her friends, have her own personal time, maybe date a civilian BF, and maybe want to see other SD's. If you haven't actually ended the arrangement and started real dating, you are just the roommate that she fucks for the rent.
What you lose:
1. All of your free time - you are now with her at home all the time. She may expect you to devote your at-home hours to her because she's bored, needs your help, or she just won't leave you the fuck alone!
2. No hosting other SB's at your place. Unless she and your other SB's are down for three-ways (don't count on that), you now have to go somewhere else to go BCD. And she will know that you are "cheating" on her. Unless she is truly "polyamorous" (Google it), you do not want to have that conversation.
3. You can't go on extended trips, travel, vacations without her. Do you really want to leave her alone in your place for 2-5 days, let alone weeks or months? Imagine how may new bad decisions she can make while you are out closing that $5 million dollar deal in Boise? Now imagine she made those bad decisions in your home, with your property, supplies, neighbors, stuff? How much insurance do you have?
4. You can't have your civilian friends or family visit you. How are you going to explain that 19-year old spinner with a nose ring, and full-sleeve tats sleeping in your bedroom, or spare bedroom, or sofa to Aunt Sophie?
No! No I say! Just don't.
Disclosure: The above citations come from my real-life Sugaring experiences. Please make my sacrifices in unfortunate investments in time, emotional pain, physical property repair, and money I have pissed away worth the costs.
Life is good
The Cat
or even if she does I will be in the know hopefully. well such is life , there is no shortage of rich young professionals wiling to hit on young co worker’s although now i guess w metoo etc dating at work is not the risk I think it used to be for losing an SB 