I flip flop on this. So many options, but time is money.
Where is your happy medium? Days per week on known vs Strange? I am sure this will be bifurcated, but curious.I love the security and deepening affection I feel with my 2 26yo SBs, I've been seeing for over 2 years. I alternate, seeing each one every other week, so I have one date per week with a LT SB. But I love the new pussy! It's so exciting! I continue to seek some strange, pretty much all the time, since here in the suburbs of Pussy Siberia it's very difficult to find a new one who actually wants to go BCD. It's delightful when it happens though! There's also a middle ground. I have 2 local SBs who used to be regulars, but who moved away or moved on and who are now back in town and def available. So I fit in a date with them from time to time, just for old times sake and the variety. They are neither new/strange nor ongoing regulars. Just fun!
I love the LT connection but am averaging 1 new new every 2 weeks (over 4 years).
Several pros in that mix, and several SBs evening that out. I generally gravitate towards threes. Both in pro and SBs. It has been quite easy with both. You just gotta ask.
Two threes next week, and one solo.
Based on his post about SBs returning to college, I am pretty sure he is referring to a threesome.
Next week, two pros (seen several times), one tinder girl (seen once), two college girls heading back (last time for a while).
Busy week, but I get impulsive. It is like a drug addiction really.
I can’t be the only one.
I have some things I'm specific on so I'd rather stay with one I've found that likes it. Better connection. If I'm in the mood for variety I can get an escort.
But the difference between me and others who enjoy long term relationships is probably because I am not looking for a deeper relationship. I'm not really involved in their lives, which would just add complications. When you become real friends with someone you take on certain responsibilities of friendship. You help them out, they help you out. It becomes a liability of sorts (hopefully with concomitant rewards.) But I don't have the bandwidth for any of that.
And that's a very honest response Lester! The fact is that the Sugar Bowl contains enough variety that you can find exactly the sort of arrangement(s) that suit you, whatever that may be. You just have to search and find them.
... in my experience, having the steady, long-term relationship where you get to know each other is -- to me -- much more relaxing and fulfilling than constantly finding new options. I do like the variety, but given the choice, I would take a steady.