http://www.prostate-massage-and-health.com/erotic-prostate-massage.html

First hand knowledge leads me to believe a prostate massage is simply a finger in the butt during a handjob.  That's what I get when one is offered.  Big whoop.  

But when I get a physical from the doctor, he checks my prostate by hand for real.  Not exactly a pleasurable thing.  I would rather avoid it, not pay extra for it.  But clearly he is rubbing the prostate to feel it for cancerous tumors and such.

So I can only guess there must be something in between.  Is there a type of massage that involves massaging the prostate AND is pleasurable?

And where do I get one of these.

Thanks in advance.

I can distinctly remember the first time one of my hottest civvie GFs, in many ways,  was giving me a BJ, and she surprised me with a dildo at the same time.
Something was rubbed that intensified my pleasure .. I had a distinct feeling it was my prostrate?
If I claimed I didn't enjoy her efforts , I would be lying through my ass.
Although very rare, some women who are masters at  exhibiting  their  art of extreme sensuality, have the ability to bring me where I have never gone before.

The first time it happened to me turned out to be a finger in my ass with a handjob too. After that I was not interested. Then I saw a massage therapist that offered. I explained my bad experience and she said" too many girls don't know what they are doing."  So I allowed her to proceed. It was a BJ with a prostate massage (which followed a regular full body massage) and she was right, it was awsome! Get someone who knows what they are doing and it will blow your mind.  Thanks Diane.

If you are ever in New York this lovely gal is about as genuine as it gets...

I don't doubt the prostate massage exists, but it is pretty tough finding a genuine one.

I have heard the Japanese are good at prostate massage.  Thanks again!

I've had good ones and bad ones. Unfortunately you won't know the ladies skills until it may be to late. It seems to me, that it's not described much in reviews.

Yes, exactly.  The term is throw around a lot, but no one ever explain how massaging a prostate desires special mention.  I mean, massaging anything is nice.  I have not experienced a massaged prostate that is worth designating with its own term.