If you gave her $800, $100 off the next visit means almost nothing (and of course I would suggest you have your head examined. lol) OTOH if you only gave her $200 last time, a hundred bucks off would be considerable.
AND to state the obvious, whatever you agree upon, make damn sure you don't give it to her until she is leaving just in case another "emergency" comes up.
Man, I don't have GaGam money.... lol
No, I top out at 400, 300 most of the time.
ALWAYS give out the card last. (Actually, she said she needed to go call her brother and have a smoke--she said, "I'll come back, I'll leave my purse." No matter to me, I thought, I hadn't given her the gift card and cash yet.)
I think she's worth another try. Blonde, intelligent spinner, and a lot of fun.
SB's without kids. Assuming her excuse was legit and the call from her Bro was real that is. Why? Because no mother will ever prioritize her SD over her kids. And to be clear, no mother ever should!
If the call/excuse was bogus, you will know when she comes back by how well she adheres to whatever "make it up to you" agreement you strike with her. If she pulls another stunt, she's a (semi)-pro and you should treat her accordingly.
As to what to negotiate for the "make it up" bit, consider offering her a few options like:
1. Overnight with multiple sessions, including a wake up BJ with swallow for the same cash amount.
2. Half the cash, doubling (or at least 50% more of) the original time.
3. Bring a hot friend for a three-way.
I've had a couple of experiences where something happened that led to the SB promising to make it up to me.
In one case (slightly different circumstances), the SB made it up to me in a big way. She arranged for a threesome with her cute friend. The SB refused any money for the threesome, and the friend was at or below normal market rates. Great time, definitely made up for the first misunderstanding (and then some).
In another case, when the SB promised to make it up to me, she really meant that she would ignore all future attempts to contact her, leaving me high and dry.
You win some, you lose some.
I have a desk draw full of them. Would you like any?
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is a cute little latina spinner. She'd been asking me for a date for weeks but I was two busy with others! Anyway, we finally had a great romp in bed. I'd rate her body a 8, face 7, performance 8, good little fuck for 200. Three days later she texts me saying she needs some money and gets paid in a few days and would understand if I have to say no, put could I please lend her $40? I'm thinking, in principle the answer is no. But forty bucks? Gimme a break, that's nothing. So I meet her at a convenience store and hand her two twenties which she's thrilled to receive. She promised to call me on payday (which she did) but I told her I'd rather give her the opportunity to make it up to me in other ways. I think she'll follow thru, since she's been texting asking for another date, but my "dance card" has been so full this week I haven't said yes yet. I plan to have her make it up to me next week sometime and will let you know if she follows through. But I figure $40 just isn't much of a risk. If she ghosts on me no big deal. The point is, in these situations, the amount she asks for, and how that compares to her normal per date rate, should influence your decision on whether or not to advance her any money.
And I did the $40 thing once, too. Not a big deal -- except the requests follow and they seem to be incremental.
Their financial needs don't seem to stop. They don't stop for us either and we often make several multiples of their annual tuition. So it's up to us to say when enough is enough - GaG gave me some great advice a week or so ago when he said all money fronted needs to be done at a meeting. That has ended every request for more ahead of time. Magic.
I swear I cannot believe how easy this is compared to all other options.
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That doesn't break any of my rules and quite frankly I would have probably done it too.
The thing you don't want to do is give her more money than she can get from you in a single meeting. if she thinks the next time she sees you that you won't give her any money, the chances of ever seeing her again go down dramatically.
As I said before, if any SB asks me to "send" them any money, It's simply "against my policy" lol and you are so right, this really is easy once you get the hang of it.
