...it's populated with A listers who are no longer local to me. When I get a quick itch that my A listers can't scratch, I keep a list of 3 or 4 moderate cost/high compatibility pros on hand.
I've never been interested in retaining or acquiring an SB that is well outside my acceptable zone for looks, attitude or BCD skills. I've had the opportunity, but never pursued it. For example, I met a 34-ish Asian semi-spinner a couple of years ago who was looking for her 1st SD after leaving a rocky 4 year relationship due to some trauma. During the M&G I explained the Sugar basics to her: dates x times a week or month, allowance per date, fun activities together at my expense and lots of sloppy wet sex before we part ways for the day.
She was articulate, witty, sexy AF and had a good job. She wasn't desperate for cash; just companionship, funds for some modest luxuries, and fun.
However, the trauma I mentioned above is what made the BF bail after he realized why sex with her was so disappointing. It turns out she had childhood issues with a relative (read between the lines...) and as a result, the most she was comfortable doing sexually was being a starfish while a guy pumped and dumped. No oral, no foreplay, no anal, no active participation at all. (Yes, she had seen therapists, blah, blah, blah...)
I was direct but not rude when I let her know that I, along with most guys she would meet on the site, would not be willing to sign up for that and we parted ways. I still see her profile active on the site, so I guess she's been able get some sugar along the way.
There are a few former SB's that I occasionally think about, including two porn stars. But I really don't see myself in the recycling business.
Life is good
The Cat