it will show up on your profile.

Just a suggestion, but you could go the other way with this.  

Assuming you think she attractive, and you aren't married/in a committed relationship and she knows your SO, why not discretely contact her and see where it goes?  

She already knows you so presumably she'll feel safe with you. And you obviously are already of a similar philosophy on sugaring.  

I heard once that the Chinese word for "danger" is the same as the word for "opportunity".  

So that means if she's Asian you can bang her. :p

What is the big deal?

She is in the same position as you. There is no way she is going to tell anyone you are on SA because that would expose herself too. Bang her if you think she is attractive and the price is right. BTW, She is a very close friend? Most guys don't have attractive female friends. It is too much of a tease.

I obviously don't know your situation, but rather agree with the last two posts.  I admit my first reaction would be horror too, but since you know each other it may lead to an exciting opportunity

I think he saw his wife on there! LOLz. EOM

EOM.

and in all three cases it was fun contacting them and wishing them success in their adventures. Of course I suggested they let me show them the ropes as it were but none of the three took me up on it.  But it was not awkward in the least.  As others have said, they value their discretion too, so have no reason to expose me or my activities here.

I just kind of got in a panic as I don't want anyone I know I'm on the site. Even by not having a pic I think she would figure out it was me. We know each other that well just not BCD. We've been great friends for a long time probably because we've never slept together. Odd thing is, she has a boyfriend who really is her sugar daddy as I've found out from other friends. So I'm not bringing it up to her that I know she's on the site nor that I'd like to be with her. Just keep our relationship as friends. And figure out how to be on the site an not let her know or know it's me. Thanks for all the replies

It's sometimes king of a lonely world.  I wouldn't mind knowing a few other people as friends who are in the same situation.