Happy Holidays LG.

There's this gal I've met, she has a significant "other" guy in her life. She's a very horny, sexual woman and is obviously not getting enough sexual attention from her "man". She say's she tries to get him aroused, but he just does not respond. Lest you think she's an unattractive woman, she's NOT. She's brunette, about 36yrs old, 120Ibs, 5'6" and very attractive looking.

She tells me, she thinks her SO watches online porn. We get together once a week, after work and FUCK like bunnies for a couple of hours. Her SO lives in her House and also uses her minivan for work, he also owns a small business.

I'm at a loss understanding what's going on in her SO's guys mind. Maybe you can help explain LG. I sometimes feel a little guilty fooling around with her, but then again I'm having one hell of a time with her. My impression is that she wants him around to help pay her household expenses and I guess I'm around to take care of her sexual needs.

She's told me several times she does know how she would cope if I stopped seeing her. LG can you please explain what's going here and how I move forward from here.
Thanks

Congrats on being a FWB FB. Every horny mans dream.

As for her SO there are a lot of things that COULD be going on. She could be a nag. He could have an ED problem. After a while he is just not interested in her. Crap happens in relationships. Its easy to fall in love but sometimes more difficult to love the one you fell for.

As for your situation enjoy it but do not get emotionally involved. If you want to see her less perhaps introduce her to some of your horny friends.

Dear newbie1972,

It is very difficult to make pronouncements or assessments of people based on simple hearsay. Since we don't know what or how she really feels, all we've got to go on is what you are hearing from her. As to his deal - we don't know ANYTHING.

Your issue is one of decision - do you stay with the situation and get your rocks off for as long as possible, or do you bail out while the going's good and the complications are minimal?

Again, I don't know your tolerance for b.s. or emotional involvement with a woman who is living with another man. Guilt? Trust me, you don't need to feel any. She is obviously an adult, fully aware and responsible for her own actions. It's not like you're "stealing" someone's woman - that went out with medieval chivalry, thank you.

My prediction is that at some point, the relationship between her and the SO will founder. As to your role in picking up the emotional slack and filling the vacuum that will exist in her life after jettisoning the guy (or getting dumped, who knows), that's a decision you'll have to make when you get there. Then again, if you fall in love and she doesn't, it could get tough. Watch the emotions and check your affection barometer regularly.

Just one thing though; is she using you as some kind of "revenge/punishment toy" for the fact that her SO is watching online porn? She may have done so in the beginning, but now she's realizing how good it feels and doesn't want to give you up. As long as you don't expect too much emotional depth from these sexual roundelays, then stay in them and play Ring Around the Rosie.

Have fun and don't get caught - that scene from "Sideways" always puts a horrified smile on my face,
The Love Goddess

I feel for you.  Seriously, this is a mixed blessing.  Years ago, I had a torrid (does anybody use that word anymore) affair with a 10 years my senior MILF.  The sex was great.  I fell for her.  I believe she loved me too.  She also loved her husband & daughter.  After several years, I had to walk away because I realized she would never be mine, no matter what she said.  
It is very natural to fall for someone you have great sex with...  that's the hormones which act to presere the species.  Guys fall for favorite providers way too often, as LG will attest...  and that's with the agreement of "No Strings Attached".  
You, my friend, are walking a tight rope.  You put your heart at risk.  Is it worth it?  I'm not qualified to answer that for you.
I will tell you the 5 years that I had this illicit relationship was 5 years I made myself unavailable for normal civie dating & relationships.  Perhaps this is what I was thinking of when I created the nom du plume of "shudaknownbetter".
Best of Luck to you,
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....I once met a 50+ year old California gal who taught me a lot about how to pleasure women. To be honest, I initially thought it was all a bunch of BS, but it WORKED.

She was not at all interested in the "wam bam thank you mam" experience. She called me her "Man Toy" and showed me how to tease and lick her pussy/clit with my tongue and lips. She also showed me how to use my Fingers/Tongue/Cock to stoke and massage THREE sensitive areas in her Vagina that set her off like a firecracker.

Unfortunately she moved back to California a couple of years ago and I've tried her techniques on a couple of Fuck Buddy Friends and it works. It drives them so crazy that they want to screw me silly.

Anyhow the reason I'm telling you all this, I was completely clueless about how to pleasure women, I believed what I saw in Porn movies, the wam bam thank you mam experience, which is complete and utter BS and turns off a lot of women after a while.

Some of us complain about our SO's/wives etc losing interest in sex, it all boils down to taking the time, at least 30-40 minutes of foreplay, teasing, licking sucking her clit, vagina, g spot, etc before moving onto the main event.

I'm sure this will work for most women and you'll end up having getting more sex from your SO than you could ever have imagined.