why does it matter?  are you gay?

If they were potentially STD/AIDS infected and follow standard precautions to safegaurd oneself.  Some are more obvious than others but dont be fooled... It may cost you more than you can pay.

Its just good business....

Margaret

Most of the Gay men I know find the idea of sex with a woman as distasteful as straight men find the idea of sex with a man.

How many straight men hire a gigolo from time to time to experience sex with a man?  I am gonna go out on a limb and guess next to none.

when I first starting working..2 yrs agao..back in Boston..I worked for a guy..who would provide services for other men..he called it "being gay for pay" and more than a few times I would either be asked to watch..or join in...and you know how you here all those famed stories about guys getting things stuck in their rectum..and having to go to the ER ..well that really happened to him...I thought " i actually now know someone it happened to"..he likened servicing other men by saying " its not like I am gay..I suck only on latex" as if he needed to convince me he was not gay or bi..as if I cared,,.... at least I can honestly say Ive done it all..lol

> Due to health issues, is this a concern?

I see this time and time again but don't understand where it comes from. All the gay men I know are very anal (pun intendeded) about safety, far more than the straight guys I know.

Oh, my...yet ANOTHER "health concern" related post from an alias...

Likes Them Small and Sexy Megan said it best.  If anything, gay or bi men these days are (in GENERAL) more safe than hetero men.  Reagrdless, however, all this thread really comes down to is "Gee, how can I be SURE?", and my point is the same as always:  only way to be 100% sure is use a condom for everything and pray it doesn't break, even with your spouse.  Other than that, it is just a matter of playing the odds, no matter how small or large those odds are, depending upon the scenarios.