Were talking about testicles, the amount of spludge, all that shit. Said I've had orgasms without actually ejaculating.

I mean, that's when I go on marathon gigs. Seeing ladies for multiple hours day after day for a few days. Then throw in the fact I drink and smoke and my diet sucks ass. The only thing I have going for me is my job is mostly physical.

But like I told my friend, I've came without cumming. Know what I mean? I've had orgasms, without splashing allover the fucking place.

I think the splashing is just an after effect. If it's there, it's there. The whole deal is the feeling that got you there, whether you splashed or not.

Maybe it can be compared to whether a lady squirts or not. I don't know. All I know is I don't have to paint a lady's face with semen to know I got off.

anxiety (to perform or finish or stress unrelated to the session etc), not as attracted to her as you thought, session not going as well as expected etc.

I know you said you have good health. Double check your blood pressure. Also did you drink you water ? I try to drink a bottle of water before having a session, especially with the heat we have had this summer.

I am 48. I swim 2 times a week 1.5 to 2 miles, and lift 3 times a week.

I have never had a session where I was not able to get a hard on and not pop. Sometimes I can't go for multiple rounds because I could be tired, did not get enough rest, or did not have enough fluid.

Also if the session is in the evening  time make sure you eat your dinner so you get your protein to get a hard on.

But, who knows?  It also could be prostatitis, which can decrease the sensitivity of the nerves around the prostate.  It can take months to recover from that.  But, as a provider once told me, "it should be about the journey, not the ending."  Rationalization? Sure.  Here's a hint: don't put pressure on yourself to come.  Just decide, going in, that it's not going to happen and you're going to enjoy the physical contact and all the other sensations.  Easier said than done, but you may surprise yourself.

YEAH

Get a gf and bail on the bag. Latex killed most of my attempts.

If it only happened once, I wouildn't worry about it.