what is the best outfit for an incall 1st encounter?  Meaning hobbyist if its the 1st time youre meeting a provider what does she normaly wear and is that what you like (I guess that question only counts if she didn't ask you)?  And providers what do you normaly wear, I know that most independent ladies ask but for those of you who are with agencies or have been Im sure you dont get that opportunity.

with stockings and lingerie would be my first choice.

A short dress with cleavage is very nice also.
Or a shoulder revealing blouse.

... Heels and a birthday suit?  Naw, save that for date #2

When I meet a lady for the first time, I like to find her wearing something that's provocative, but not too revealing.  It can be intimate apparel, or a cocktail party outfit.  The more that's left to the imagination initially is quite seductive.

tennis

an armani suit or a sexy dress..just depending on the vibrations I felt making the date and how I travel there..if I travel by car then the coat and lingerie is easy..but if I have a flight to catch it is strange to wear your coat all the time
If someone asks me for example to wear a robe noir I have no difficulties with that..if it is something I am not comfortable with then I say so..

I agree, for me since I am on my home from the office, I am in a suit. And for her as long as she is comfortable I am happy. Maybe jeans and a t-shirt, or a clean white long button down dress shirt "only"

and usually go over the 1st-encounter outfit with her rather meticulously. beyond the usual what-turns-me-on (answer: "wear black, anything black, everything black!") there's the matter of discretion and outward propriety (what with the neighbours and all)

of course, with some women (on the phone) you get the sense that it's hopeless and then you just cross your fingers and hope she doesn't saunter through your lobby (past the concierge) dressed like a ... YIKES!

...I tell her to wear whatever will look good draped over a chair.  If it's an incall.

If she's coming to me in a hotel, then I would opt for something either business conservative, which by the way is very sexy to me, or something very casual, but not altogether revealing.

One local provider showed up for our first meeting wearing jeans, a sweater and construction boots.  Everything but the boots were fine.  For our second meeting I asked for and she wore a nice dress with heels.

A particularly tall, busty and very curvy Las Vegas provider showed up for a dinner date wearing a miniskirted sun dress, and no undies, an outfit that left absolutely nothing to the imagination.  As we sat at dinner, I couldn't help but notice that everyone in this very crowded restaurant was looking at us, and apparently knew what dessert was going to be.  I was very uncomfortable with that.  One guy actually had the temerity to approach her and ask for her phone number!

Casual is fine with me. I prefer to relax, get to know each other, then move on to the fun.

Most of my entertaining is done in my home, so I'm not too concerned about dress.  The only thing is I usually take the lady to dinner if she hasn't eaten, so anything more casual than jeans could be a problem.  I, too, prefer a slightly more sophisticated look over something revealing.  As far as my neighbors, I doubt anything I do would surprize them at this point.

Hmmmmmmmmm......Let's start from the top

A nice black choker.  A white long sleeve blouse tucked into a black patent leather flaired mini skirt.  Black seamed stockings with thigh-high black leather boots with 5" heels.

or

a sailor girls school outfit with flaired short plaid skirt, long bunched up white socks, and little black pumps.

Other than that, I'm not too particular......

I do have the white short sleeve shirts, short plaid skirts and knee socks lol

I always find it nice when she wears something nice, even conservative, but underneath is totally sexy.  Of course there is always the 'gotta change' option where you arrive dressed
casual, then change into something silky and hot!

Ok, im just a freak and enjoy this post way too much...

white silk stockings held up by white garter-belt and matching bra ensemble and nice white lace panties to finish off the underthings. Top it off with matching navy F!ck me pumps and a thin gold ankle bracelet. Demure black or gold framed glasses are a nice optional accessory.

HPG

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You can wear anything you like, Kim

I really like it when a client asks me to wear something specific as I get turned on knowing he's going to get a thrill when he sees me.  I was surprised when I began escorting how few men specify.  I always used to ask but have got out of the habit because most didn't mind.  I dress less provocatively on an appointment than I would out clubbing with friends!

Of course, sexy must still be appropriate for the surroundings but I'd encourage guys to ask if they have a preference

Carrie xxx

For some reason, I never turned out to be a lingerie guy (except thigh-highs which I can't get enough of, go figure.)

Not sure why, but my all time favorite outfit is plain street clothes outside and underneath too.  Plain button-front blouse or oxford shirt; nice jeans or very casual skirt;  pumps, although I'm all incall so shoes are pointless.  Underneath is a plain lycra camisole or a boring everyday bra.  Panties are plain too, but by no means necessary.

Also, unwrapping the present is part of the fun.  If I don't specifically request it, it always seems to be "you get comfortable, I'll be right back," so I've learned to always request "unwrapping" specifically.  Seems to be more common now than just a couple of years ago.

To be honest, I only ever remember being asked about clothing requests once, and that's given a pretty large sample.  Also, I've learned by requesting it that thigh-highs under pants/jeans is a new experience for almost every provider.

Unless I'm specifically told to dress another way, I normally wear some type of black dress that is somewhat conservative, but still sexy with a bra/garter or corset and stockings with heels.  This is covered by a long coat unless the weather is too warm.  I bring a bag of equipment with me, so I bring anything more slutty or fetishy to change into once I've arrived if that has been requested.


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