Assuming a guy is courteous, gentlemanly, nice, smells good, and all (and let's take performance in bed out of the equation first) ... what would improve a guy's 'sexy meter' when you first see the guy.
Would you prefer a guy had:
- long hair or short hair
- rugged look (hairy) or clean look (shaved or no hair)
- manly look (square jaw) or a more feminine look (soft facial features)
- bulky muscular, slim tone, chubby
If you were to rate - physical attributes, what would you prioritize: smile waist (nice abs), big strong arms, nice pecs, strong legs, nice butt, broad shoulders.
Just wondering if there was a popular physical look among ladies.
I can honestly say that what makes a man physically sexy is his comfort in his own body. If I feel like the man before me is comfortbale in his skin, well adjusted to who he is, and not judging me as a result......I'll find him very sexy.
And yes, I do like broad shoulders.
I find my self very fond of corpulent men of a broader stature. I have had my best experiences with clean shaven, hairy chested, robust bellied men. At the end of vigorous copulation I often find my self laying on their hefty warm bellies cuddling up around them as if they were pillows and light grazing my fingers along their hairy chest...
Okay you get the point- I love big boys.
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Everyone finds different combinations of attributes attractive. You may be able to survey a population to determine trends, but there will always be exceptions. There's someone for everyone! 
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Is intelligence. I always fall hard for smart men, second comes confidence. Lastly I hope that he has the willingness to try new things. After all, missionary, doggie and cow girl can get a bit redundant after a while, right?
Physical attributes will only take one so far as looks do fade. It's what's inside that counts for me.
- Short hair
- Clean cut
- Manly or feminine.. can't say, I've liked both
- nice muscles is best, slim is ok, chubby depends on how chubby. Skinny is a no-no. I don't like my guy to look malnourished.
rate physical attribute:
1) I -LOVE- abs !!! (it shows perseverance as these are hard to maintain!)
2) Big strong arms
3) Nice pecs
4) Nice butt
But yes, intelligence comes before looks.
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HUmm
Here we go
Like Grey hair or Dark hair
Skinny NO NO big no !
Long hair ,,That can be very sexy..
Masculine looks
please do no shave you chest
plus someone with Positive attitude
With A NICE SMILE --
Who enjoys Laugh and live!
That's funny, because I have done that, shave my chest that is. As I have gotten older, I dislike gray hair, so I wear a short haircut. Somehow, that same dislike of hair, has caused me to shave both my chest at times, and also my arms and legs from time to time.
Interesting to know that I have been wasting my time and razors.
But, still, you have to admit that some guys could use a body hair groomer, unless they are in the running for a wolf man part in a movie.
Short tousled hair, rugged or clean look (either or), manly look if rugged or feminine look if clean shaven, slim to muscular build for either.
I know that isn't really defining but sometimes I feel like a strong man is needed to throw me around the bedroom, and then sometimes a more tender intimate man is needed to pamper me.
I like a variety!
That's nice...really nice.
A nice healthy body weight, a few extra lbs is ok too. I tend to be attracted to talller, broad shouldered big men.. dark Hair, short or bald. Love the goatee thing,,, ( I have always loved bad boys) big sexy eyes, Chest hair is always a plus, Depending on my mood, A man is SMOKIN HOT in a tie and business suit.. but I also want to know my man knows how to fix and do things. A manly man so to speak..
Yep, I am horny just thinking about it.....
However I will continue as long as I have the proper donation to distort my sexy meter grade.
After reading the replies from various providers, I am wondering will rogain help grow hair on a hairless chest?
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I like the tall, thinner, lanky, kind of goofy looking guys.. I mean the hunks are all great.. but give me a guy who played DnD and plays WoW and is kind of a geeky, nerdy, and dorky etc... I will swoon any day!
I also love a man who can make me laugh, that will turn me on sooo much!
Personality and intelligence come first!! A guy can be unattractive, or overweight, etc.. but if he has one of those outgoing, fun personalities, it completely changes how you look at and perceive a person!!
I have preferences for my civvie life, but heck. My idea of perfection is changed radically all the time.
Personality is what does it for me (its true!) My "idea" of perfection is taller than me, in a suit and tie, clean shaven and snobby.(if you are a nerd, add twenty points)
This does not explain why I was attracted to a short little hippie at one time. Or married to a redneck. lol. it was their personality that did it!
now, i do award bonus points in both my provider and civvie life for a fine man ass. You know the type...you can throw a dollar at it and get change back. Fine man ass is rare. I am not talking of the rock hard type...but just...a nice ass for smacking or doing whatever to. (dont ask about the "whatever")
as a provider, i find something to like about everyone. adds the fun factor to it....so things dont seem "staged" or it doesnt seem like I am "acting".
just me though. and i am the crazy one.
Beyond that my preferences are more flexible. In my personal life, I'm very active and I'm more attracted to people who look like they can keep up with me when I decide I want to go run off and climb a mountain or something -- having a cheerleader on the sidelines is nice, but having a teammate right there with me is better.
At the same time, if he spends like four hours a day in the gym, there's not much time left over for spending with me, so... I like 'em fit but not obsessively so. 
As far as facial features, I can't think of any defining attributes, other than an easy smile. Too serious or never laughs at my silly jokes OR can't make me laugh? Pass!
This is true for me.I am more attracted to a friendly,outgoing gentleman that can stimulate me with conversation before the good part!I am a lady that loves cars and even better if he is too.A good personality goes alot further than looks.I have had gentleman whose appearance I was initially attracted to but then there personality and attitude stunk.I do like shorter hair but I don't have a preference either way as long as it's nice and neat.Some of my greatest escapades that have been shared with gentleman that don't fit my civilian type(tall,dress casual/business attire)and I was very pleasantly surprised at the attraction.
jaydalee
The lovely thing about this hobby is variety. I love men!
