A few months ago, "Sherlock Bones" posted something about breasts and I thought it was cute how he referred to their handling as "workin 'em." ;^)
Soooo, I know this is very much an individual thing, so no need to caveat your answers with that, but providers, any tips for the less-informed on "workin em."
Spend more time there or less? Move on, or stop back often? More or less attention focused on the "obvious spot," and if less, where else? Do you prefer a touch that is gentler, or firmer than most guys apply? Escalating over time? Any recommendations for just before, during, and after orgasm?
No holdin' back here, I want all the details!
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Watch how women handle their own breasts, and each other's - you can learn a lot.
I have to admit, I haven't seen a lot of handling there, and I *would* have noted it if observed. I have learned from the little I've seen.
I prefer to start with lighter diffuse touching the nipples occassionally and progress to heavier, deeper, and more focused on the nipples.
That's what I prefer to do. Now, actual actual mileage may vary.
/Zin
Could be useful information to squirrel away
Sorry, those are two things that just aren't in my portfolio.
I don't yank womens hair, and toes don't go in my mouth.
Seriously......NO,I MEAN.....SERIOUSLY.
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I switch my vibrator on high.
Hey I enjoy a woma who likes to be rimmed and loves to rim. I am into almost anything. Just hair yanking, (never been with one who liked that) or toe sucking, sorry but I will rim a lady but can't suck on the toes...eeewwwwwwwww.
Think of my ponytails as handle bars in doggie.
would be willing to give that a try, if you ever travel out this way..............
Just was not aware of anyone I have seen liking that sort of thing. But anything but toesucking that brings the lady pleasure.
I love to have my mountains massaged, tongued and sucked on. Pretend their just like King Tut's tomb (if you know what I mean). Challenge yourself to try new things on them. A lady will tell you if you're being too hard. Soft and medium-hard are both good. I find it too methodical when men start there (just to cover the bases) then move away, only to never return again. It's too mechanical. Pay attention to them whenever you can and YES, Michelle, toes are great too!
Hugs,
Ciara
Well, Ciara, you have done it again.
Being a "boob" man most of my life I tend to agree.
I tend to spend alot of time there, gently licking, sucking, massaging, as needed, then getting a bit more agressive when requested.
I like to pay attention to the twins before, during and after moving on to other things.
And there is nothing I like more than to wind down gently playing with a nice set.
Just my opinion...
B
Phew, was rounding the 400-read bend with no similar responses, was starting to think I had my first TER board strike-out!
Sorry, didn't get the Tut's tomb metaphor. Am I missing something?
I like the "challenge" part, great advice for gals too... Sometimes we all feel pressured to try and do things "just right" so we don't look like fumbling novices. No matter what the target, I'll take playful "let's just fiddle around with your ...... and see what happens, just tell me if I do anything you don't like." any day.
And I agree with rb288... Your reply is pretty heart-warming to those of us who are admitted boob men. I didn't realize the degree to which I was one 'til I started hobbying.
Thanks Ciara!
well when you are watching the clock things like paying proper attention to the heavenly orbs gets sidetracked. And hour passes way too fast even 2 hours........
When I am not concerned about how nuch time I have I spend a lot of time on the two heavenly peaks. Assuming the lady is fortunate enough to have nice nipples, and not tiny or inverted ones.
I like big long nipples.......
"Assuming the lady is fortunate enough to have nice nipples, and not tiny or inverted ones."
Not me... I don't evaluate nipples based on ANY criteria except one: "are they touching my lips right now?" As long as we both seem to be enjoying my ministrations, I'm not real picky. Come to think of it, she can be bored out of her mind, and I'm still not that picky. ;^)
some of us don't have huge nipples when erect. Does that mean you don't think they're pretty and worth sucking on? What if we, providers, didn't like the size of your Pet!!!! Does that mean we wouldn't want to suc!!!! on it too?
Hugs,
Ciara
The one of the two women I have known with the most impressive nipples does not have the best breasts by far, but she is so good it never even crossed my mind. I will see her again soon. She is a provider.
The other was a South American lawyer that had nipples half as long as my little finger when erect and as big around. God those were awesum, she was NOT a provider.
Little ones are nice too, and not ignored by me. My ATF has litle ones, and it never bothered me.
Now inverted ones......That bothers me. Nothing to play with....
Size of my pet? well acording to honest opinions of providers its a fair bit more than average. But not huge. And I asked honestly how it compares size wise, just because I was curious. I thought I was average, they say I am way above average. I am fine with average. Not like there is anything you can do about it anyway.
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