The thing is...it's not that they don't want reviews...it's that they only want GOOD reviews...9's and 10's only.
Seriously. "I'm currently not accepting any new reviews". What does that even mean?? Imagine going to a restaurant and the owner coming out and telling you they aren't accepting any new reviews on Yelp. You're absolutely right though...they may not see the client again if he writes a review. It's just this growing attitude that it's some sort of privilege for me to write a review? Give me a break. I saw someone a few months ago who has 15 reviews and they are all 10s. She was amazing. At one point TER came up in conversation and she told me..."If you do write a review, all I ask is that you are honest and write about your experience with me as a person, not an object". Wow, that floored me...loved hearing that...she didn't mention scores at all and I felt no pressureYou're not allowed to review me, she says…
Lately I've been having some annoying experiences with providers and their "policies" in regards to reviews.
I don't review much…but when then subject comes up during a session, which I hate, I've been getting the feeling that providers don't understand the purpose of this site.
A few days ago I saw a new girl. After a nice session we were laying on the bed chit chatting. The subject of TER came up and she shot up and said "Wait. You don't post reviews do you!?? You aren't allowed to review me!"
I wasn't even planning on reviewing her, but the fact that she told me I couldn't…well…I found that annoying. She currently has about three pages of mostly 9's and a few 10's. I'm thinking to myself she really deserves 7's and 8's…but I can see she's trying to protect those high scores, and she started bitching about the guys who gave her 8's, claiming they must have been fake.
I jokingly said, "well…I'm not going to review you so don't worry…that is, unless the remainder of the session starts turns to shit". She got a bit worried by that comment and told me I can't review her, that she "isn't accepting any new reviews." LOL.
I said that really the purpose of TER is for clients to inform each other of experiences, and I appreciate those reviewers who let the community know of rip-offs and bad experiences. (not claiming that she was a rip-off at all).
"No", she said. "The purpose of TER is for escorts to market themselves. This is my business I need to protect it". Yes, it's also a marketing tool for escorts, as you can place ads here and obviously good reviews means good business. But basically her attitude was -- fuck the clients and their opinions, this is a provider tool. HA! I say, fuck that…this is first and foremost a site for clients. If you don't want reviews, or only good reviews, have your whole profile taken down and go UTR.
The week before that with a different girl, first part of the session was great, The second half was her begging me to review her. Even though she had around 50. I don't mind being asked - once…but she went on and on about how she needed a review from my city. Literally, as I was walking out the door, she was still talking about it… oh and of course the kicker - "but make sure it's a 10 ok?"…
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I choose to be a man...
If a girl tells me that I can come and see her, but I ain't allowed to review, then I choose either to go see her, or not depending upon how badly I want to write review. Like you, I too enjoy writing escapades. Giving tune to the deed that I just did.... if you will.. Last two girls who asked me not to review, before coming there (over the email), did not get my business.. Whatever I do, I will keep the word. If I do show up, I am not going to stab her in the back and review her..
Once I step my foot in the door, the ship has sailed. I never discuss review, never ever bring it up. If she says "Don't review" or "Give me such and such score" I will put that in the review as well.. If she says anything about the review, she is basically hurting her own business and reputation...
Its best to never bring up reviewing...
That being said, trust me when I say this.. There can be some ugly repercussions of writing an honest review..
Happy Hobbying.
at least they were upfront in not asking for reviews, so you have the option of not dealing with the headache conversations. In my experiences this has come in the middle or end of the session out of nowhere.
It seriously seems like a trend to me. Another two girls recently texted me thanks after a date and casually mentioned they aren't accepting reviews. What the fuck...this never used to happen to me. Girls are becoming obsessed with scores. If someone dare hands someone in the TER top 100 an 8, they have to worry about drama or even being blacklisted.
There is no such thing as "not accepting" reviews...
When the review goes in the queue, it is approved by the TER Staff member..
Tell them to get the terminology right, and then to STFU.. 
AMEN!!! That very thing happened to me recently and by the time the provider was done bitching to TER the review was unapproved (after it had been posted) and I was threatened with being banned! Top 100 lady and god forbid I gave her a 7 on performance. She went NUTS!!
It seriously seems like a trend to me. Another two girls recently texted me thanks after a date and casually mentioned they aren't accepting reviews. What the fuck...this never used to happen to me. Girls are becoming obsessed with scores. If someone dare hands someone in the TER top 100 an 8, they have to worry about drama or even being blacklisted.
A few years ago I wrote a pretty nice review for a gal who had mostly 9/9s, but I gave her 7s because the session just wasn't that good. And I didn't even mention that she had garlic breath! The review went up but was pulled after a few days. Admin told me it was because they could not verify that the session happened. Obviously, she wasn't happy with the 7s and told Admin the session never happened. It's still in my "My Reviews" section marked "Unapproved."
leading up to the session saved?
If I were you, I would go and submit it to TER and get it approved again...
Never thought to look. Maybe it's in my PM file but I'm too lazy to look. Anyway, I don't need credit for the review since I have more than 500 free VIP days. Anyone who wants the name of the gal can PM me. She's a fairly well known NY provider. Again, a perfectly nice girl but we just didn't click.
More important, back then I didn't really understand how TER's scoring system was supposed to work and, despite the lack of chemistry, based on the services she provided she probably deserved a 8 for performance.
Almost the same thing happened to me! She was top 100, I gave her a 7 because she cancelled an hour before the appointment, asked me to reschedule to the next day, then she was late, clock-watched, and cut the appointment short. She freaked, told TER the session never happened. When I proved it did, and the review stayed, she tried to black list me.
It seriously seems like a trend to me. Another two girls recently texted me thanks after a date and casually mentioned they aren't accepting reviews. What the fuck...this never used to happen to me. Girls are becoming obsessed with scores. If someone dare hands someone in the TER top 100 an 8, they have to worry about drama or even being blacklisted.
This is why I never mentioned reviews, or asked for them. EVER. It leaves a sour note...
HOWEVER. This method does work (as you noticed).
So it's kind of like...damned if you mention it, damned if you don't. She's right in one sense - many (higher-end) providers don't just wait passively for reviews to appear. They beg for those damn scores, wheel and deal for them, and bank off them. It's a time-honored and proven way to get business.
Guys are just as much at fault
Or put presure on to be someone your not . Your real and your wonderful. And that speaks volumes. Others like you are all smart . Who needs that crap. xoxoxo
Oh , eggs over easy tomorrow morning okay , 2 slices of wheat light and dont forget my choc milk and juice !!!!!!!!!!
Oh , eggs over easy tomorrow morning okay , 2 slices of wheat light and dont forget my choc milk and juice !!!!!!!!!!
The thing is...it's not that they don't want reviews...it's that they only want GOOD reviews...9's and 10's only.
Seriously. "I'm currently not accepting any new reviews". What does that even mean?? Imagine going to a restaurant and the owner coming out and telling you they aren't accepting any new reviews on Yelp.
You're absolutely right though...they may not see the client again if he writes a review.
It's just this growing attitude that it's some sort of privilege for me to write a review? Give me a break.
I saw someone a few months ago who has 15 reviews and they are all 10s. She was amazing. At one point TER came up in conversation and she told me..."If you do write a review, all I ask is that you are honest and write about your experience with me as a person, not an object". Wow, that floored me...loved hearing that...she didn't mention scores at all and I felt no pressure
is if any guy hated her will he admit it in a review?
never
why?
well of course the problem is HIS not hers...
she gets all 10s from everyone else, so if a guy says anything less, it must have been him, not her right?
wrong!
I don't want perfect
I want HONEST
Deserve it , and the guys who see 9/20 10/10 know the deal , so its bullshit ! Solid 8s are the best time and the guys know it too. See its to rate high in the search !!!!! And many guts , i hate to say are dumb ? Cant read the reviewer right . So there are various reasons. Okay there was a girl , fraud ripped off a guy. Another guy posted about her , also fake photos now i posted the truth. Another guy said "oh i like her and i dont care the pics are fake" now i told him to go read the thread where another guy called her out for robbing him !!!!!!!! The puppy guy didnt care ? Now she was lying and taking busibess from other girls , why ???????higher scores !!!!! Yup and its wrong !!!!!!!!!
Seriously. "I'm currently not accepting any new reviews". What does that even mean?? Imagine going to a restaurant and the owner coming out and telling you they aren't accepting any new reviews on Yelp.
You're absolutely right though...they may not see the client again if he writes a review.
It's just this growing attitude that it's some sort of privilege for me to write a review? Give me a break.
I saw someone a few months ago who has 15 reviews and they are all 10s. She was amazing. At one point TER came up in conversation and she told me..."If you do write a review, all I ask is that you are honest and write about your experience with me as a person, not an object". Wow, that floored me...loved hearing that...she didn't mention scores at all and I felt no pressure.
And this is exactly why TER offers the option of a review alias
IF it's a good experience and to only write a review if the experience is sub par to warn your fellow mongers.
They are many legitimate reasons for a lady to not want any, or any more reviews. She might be going UTR, she could have a stalker, or she might just not want to appear "high volume" all of those would be good reasons to "request" no reviews. A sub par or over rated woman who "demands" no reviews is quite a different matter, and no woman can expect you to keep your mouth shut after essentially ripping you off by not delivering what you were expecting.
So far no one has begged for a review. Last lady I visited probably won't be getting one. The sex was great, but set up, attitude, and another non sex thing left a bad taste in my mouth.
Should be the 1 you review ! You lost me ? So you only review the good times ? Go read curlys !!!!!!!!!!
You're right. I'll get on it before the 3 month mark.
that is a can of crock!
You can do what you want to do...
BUT
if you enjoyed her, and you DO review her, she may never see you again...
so that id something you have to consider..
I just think the whole "don"t review me yet you meet me on a hooker board" is really a bunch of crap. If you do not want reviews, do not advertise for clients on a damn hooker board!!! DOH
I actually LOVE when I read reviews, good or bad... I can #1 see what he enjoyed and it feels great to know he said such sweet things
#2 I can also use his comments as a good way to change anything he commented on that I could change...
I am not one to bite the hand that feeds me... ugh
I enjoy my reviews for the same reasons! If I didn't have reviews in the beginning I'd still be doing all the wrong things! I learn from my reviews whether they are good or bad. That is the beauty of it.
Turn you down based on what and how you write ! So you have to decide whats best for you or alias review in a few months. After other reviews go up. Now if she has a legit reason , RESPECT IT . Honestly its all bullshit , unless its a ripoff. Or unsafe in a certain way. But rule #1 if she doesnt have steady reviews somethings WRONG , why guys like to tell nice things and tend to skip the bad 1s. Sooooooo well reviewed provider !
happened here. Having seen the lady before I was shocked. I guess something went wrong but I was very happy to see her again...and again. She said the "2" really hurt her biz but what I don't get if all other reviews are awesome how does one REALLY bad review outdo all the others?
Your talking about if its in the middle . But the phone will stop ringing after a bad #!! 10/10 .sucks its alot if pressure.
It happens to all of us, I have one. You rub some guy the wrong way and he takes it out on your reviews. Most hobbyists can figure those out, but the lady in question may have been more concerned about how it dropped her overall score. The whole review manipulation is unfair to the rest of us who don't try to mess with our reviews. The most I do is look over someone's reviews if he requests a booking with me, and if he has scoring women with my body type low I will tell him that I don't think I'm his type and leave it up to him to decide.
After looking at their other reviews. I'm pretty sure those dudes that drop a deuce or trey are Aspergers or smelly or turbo fat or all 3....
There are also just hard graders and one can determine that from their other reviews.
That being said, I just look at that stuff for amusement. I use the appearance numbers as a ranking filter if I go to a new area. I don't use the performance numbers.
However, I will think twice if a woman I want to see seems to run hot or cold with her clients. I don't want to be the guy to see her and push the wrong button or get a bad day etc... I don't need the risk.
Thanks for telling me I am definitely reviewing you now. Being asked politely after a session if everything went well is one thing but being told what I can do and what I can't, well I'm sorry but I just paid for your service and I will review your service if I decide too. If you feel you have the right to tell me not to review you then you should maybe not see clients that day. This business is all about customer service and if you are having a shitty day maybe you should take the day off.
My current fave has many 10/10s but a bunch of 8s and 9s and some 7s. A very recent review was an 8/8 and I was thinking "What is wrong with this guy?" or "Maybe she's burned out or it was a bad day?" or ???
Well, the text of the review was off the charts! The words described a 10 beauty and 10 experience and a 10 recommendation but the numbers were only 8/8.
I don't discuss reviews with her. I don't think she minds the 8s too much because she is a very popular and very busy woman
I am sorry but 10's are given out too easily
and so because of this then 8's and 7's are looked at as a negative!
I am NOT giving 10 to every guy
when they only review me as such it HURTS me, as then the expectations and bar is higher for me
what if I am not in a 10 mood? so I fake it?
great so my 7 now is truly a 4 for pretending
I want honest, real, and not gusy who blow smoke
Hobbyists tend to forget how important decent reviews are or else NOBODY will see the provider. Also, most guys don't see how bad reviews deeply impact the quantity of clients she ends up seeing. The lady ends up seeing close to nobody for quite some time. A lot of girls don't have a large amount of money in their bank to be okay with seeing nobody for that length of time.
Imagine needing to pay your bills before the end of the month and nobody wants to see you. No stress, right!?
In what situation would a provider with pages of 9s and 10s all of a sudden be out of business for a month because of a bad review? That review would have to be absolutely terrible, and even then it would probably get written off by most potential clients. What you are saying is a stretch. A 7 or 8 isn't going to put you out of business...and yet we have providers thinking 7s and 8s are abysmal scores. Also, if she gets a string of terrible reviews, she probably deserves them.
It's the providers who "won't allow reviews" anymore who have 9s and 10s because they are afraid to get a 8 and have their average score go down. It's total bullshit and not the way it should work. You don't get to "lock in" your initial inflated high scores and then shut down the ability for anyone else to review you.
Imagine needing to pay your bills before the end of the month and nobody wants to see you. No stress, right!?
As someone who does not manipulate my reviews, I can assure you that I am plenty busy, even with my 7s and (gasp!) a couple of 6s. No, I'm not a HDH, but I'm doing just fine, thanks. And I'm doing it honestly, which in the end gives me a better reputation than the girls who give discounts for high scores, or those that make threats if they get a score they deem unacceptable. Trust me, I know who they are, and so do many of the hobbyists. If you don't, then you're not paying attention.
Which makes it absolutely hilarious that one "ad site" in particular requires a certain TER rating as a prerequisite to advertising there. What percentage of those girls do you think manipulate their reviews? Hmmmm........
I do not have perfect scores, and I am GLAD! I stay busy too.. (well as busy as I choose to be)
So I do not agree with that provider.
Mainly because this is a review site. It's why people join. Any member has an absolute right to write a review, good, bad or indifferent. If a girl provides poor service, people have a right to know. If it affects her ability to pay her bills maybe she'll straighten up and fly right.
You are also wrong to say "NOBODY" will see a gal who gets a bad review. In fact, most guys will still consider a girl who has only one or two bad reviews if there are also lots of good ones.
In my work a bad review can seriously hurt my business also. Guess what, it's the risk we all assume the moment we hang out a shingle. Wanna sit at the big kids' table? Then deal with it.
Yes life is full of disappointments. BUT, if you charge a very high rate and get bad reviews, nobody will see you. Guys think, "Well, I can see so and so for cheap and she has better reviews than the high priced girl. She must be better than her. The HDH looks like she's not as good as she used to be anyways since she has a new bad review."
The truth is there are some guys who are so damn picky and expect to be fucking supermodel escorts. These unrealistic guys rate the ladies who they see very low. IMO, these are the guys who it's fine to ask not to review you. Because they will rate everyone regardless of who they are a 5,6, or 7 and screw up your business. It just happened recently to a top provider.
then she doesn't deserve to be a HDH. Why is that so hard to understand? What has she done to earn it?
And no, there are not THAT many very picky reviewers. Most of the guys are, in fact, quite generous. And one or two not so great reviews by the very few very picky guys out there are disregarded by most if they are outweighed by great reviews, as previously stated by several other posters.
Man, she has you snowed. Good for her I guess. Sad for you.
Reviews
"This is the section where the guys get to review providers who advertise on the web. You can now know exactly what to expect before you make the call and spend your hard earned money. The bonus is that the opinions expressed are real and not sent in by the adult entertainers themselves..."
The numbers cause so much drama, I think it would be better if TER just got rid of them, and everyone was forced to read the text of a review to decide if it was good or bad. Is that just me?
As a client I pretty much ignore the numbers, what I need is in the text. I usually select a provider based on her photos first, and then look at the reviews to confirm that the photos are real. I also look at the services to see what she does.
I have a policy that she has to have a review within the last three months. If she doesn't I wait a while to see if she gets one. If she doesn't get one in four or five months I don't schedule with that provider. I start wondering whoa...whats going on there? I would rather schedule based on a 7 or 8 review that is recent over a 10/10 that is six months old.
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1. I agree that the numbers often don't match the words. One of my 6s in appearance says I'm beautiful, and the only 6 I have ever received in performance says that my service was consistent with my past reviews, which, for performance, are almost all 8s, 9s and 10s, with just a few 7s. There is definitely a disconnect between the number and the words in both of those reviews.
2. The issue with requiring a review within the last 3 months is that many of us who have been around for a while have a bunch of regulars that we see often, and they reviewed us a long time ago and see no reason to re-review us now. So very often the more established we are, the less likely we are to have recent reviews. I do get your logic, but there are caveats to it.
So if a guy consistently gives 10's then their reviews are useless. You might as well not review at all. Furthermore, if you are giving someone a 10 and they dont deserve it, then you are screwing other guys out of their money. I would rather get an 8 from a guy that gives all 7's, then a 10 from someone that hands them out all day long.
If someone deserves a 10 which is once in a lifetime, better than everyone you have ever seen then by all means give it to them. Personally, the numbers are not what is important to me, it is the level of service, The words in the reviews are far more important than the numbers.
In my opinion, my bad reviews are good, they may not be 10's but they are honest and accurate. They guy may have been looking for someone younger, thinner and not have taken the time to read my website. But the words inside those reviews accurately depict the session and service and they are good.
So if your a guy and you chose not to review, because a provider will give yopu crap. I personally believe that you too are a fake and no better then the girls that you complain about that insist on perfect scores and fight to get reviews removed.
Lets face it the ter number reviewing system definitely has its flaws. I have an 8.57 for 113 reviews over an 11 year span. If I go back and do my last 3 pages and average them then i have a 9.3. I am perfectly content with an 8 but my point is providers that have been here for a shorter amount of time should have higher ratings. I think TER should have a section on the providers profile on how many reviews has a provider had pulled. Thats a telling sign. Like I said before the words are more important than the numbers
Yes, I know if you take "once in a lifetime" literally you should only give out one. But that's not the way most reviewers see it and I don't even think TER intends it to be used the way you said. If you doubt this, just look at TER's instructions on how to calculate performance scores. To me a 10 is someone who provides the absolute best session possible, and it could not have been better. I give out very few 10s, but I'll continue to award them to the "best of the best."
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Disagree. When I was 15 the first guy I had sex with was a 10 then a year later the next guy was a 10 because I did not know any better. Well, same thing happens in hobby life. What would you want guys to do...go back and change all his past 10s to 9s because he found someone better after the fact? That's silly. If "in that moment" she was a 10, that is all he is scoring...not for the rest of his natural born life. Her timed session was a 10, and his next timed session might be a 10 as wel because there is no 11.
If someone deserves a 10 which is once in a lifetime, better than everyone you have ever seen then by all means give it to them. Personally, the numbers are not what is important to me, it is the level of service, The words in the reviews are far more important than the numbers.
In my opinion, my bad reviews are good, they may not be 10's but they are honest and accurate. They guy may have been looking for someone younger, thinner and not have taken the time to read my website. But the words inside those reviews accurately depict the session and service and they are good.
So if your a guy and you chose not to review, because a provider will give yopu crap. I personally believe that you too are a fake and no better then the girls that you complain about that insist on perfect scores and fight to get reviews removed.
Lets face it the ter number reviewing system definitely has its flaws. I have an 8.57 for 113 reviews over an 11 year span. If I go back and do my last 3 pages and average them then i have a 9.3. I am perfectly content with an 8 but my point is providers that have been here for a shorter amount of time should have higher ratings. I think TER should have a section on the providers profile on how many reviews has a provider had pulled. Thats a telling sign. Like I said before the words are more important than the numbers.
London, I realize it's your time, but I wouldn't waste it trying to explain anything to these guys.
There have been a lot of posts lately blabbing the same stupid drivel. They are not only WRONG they are whiners to boot.
If the definition in the database literally meant "once in a lifetime" each reviewer would get one "10" to give out in each category and after that would have to give out "9's" or below. That's simply not the way it works, stop crying about it. Send TER a complaint and get it changed if you can, but please stop whining!
Secondly, PLENTY of guys review low, so the high scores are going to cancel out the low and vice versa. Get it guys? If a gal is loaded up with 10's, she's probably great, and if it bothers you this much, you need a nap. Move on please.
If I ever get a chance to see you London I'll give you a 10/10 (bet that REALLY pisses them guys off LOL)!!!!
If someone deserves a 10 which is once in a lifetime, better than everyone you have ever seen then by all means give it to them. Personally, the numbers are not what is important to me, it is the level of service, The words in the reviews are far more important than the numbers.
In my opinion, my bad reviews are good, they may not be 10's but they are honest and accurate. They guy may have been looking for someone younger, thinner and not have taken the time to read my website. But the words inside those reviews accurately depict the session and service and they are good.
So if your a guy and you chose not to review, because a provider will give yopu crap. I personally believe that you too are a fake and no better then the girls that you complain about that insist on perfect scores and fight to get reviews removed.
Lets face it the ter number reviewing system definitely has its flaws. I have an 8.57 for 113 reviews over an 11 year span. If I go back and do my last 3 pages and average them then i have a 9.3. I am perfectly content with an 8 but my point is providers that have been here for a shorter amount of time should have higher ratings. I think TER should have a section on the providers profile on how many reviews has a provider had pulled. Thats a telling sign. Like I said before the words are more important than the numbers.
Everyone is DIFFERENT ! I can tell you this....if a providers is getting all 10s I'm VERY suspect. To be honest I PM most of the guys that have seen the women I want to see and they tell me the truth. After the first 4 or 5 women I saw, I started to PM guys and they told me what I needed to know without a filter. If she was HOT, lean, in shape, or fat, baby fat or if she loved to fuck or suck of would lick his balls and CIM. It's the BEST way to communicate with the TER community because it's private and they can say what they want without being called names and worrying about their own Rep. Does that makes sense? Have a great weekend guys...and gals. I'm off to a date....AKA to get LAID : 
Step up and tell TER!
Seriously!
This community is here for a reason!
And I have seen a couple of providers, especially on the Florida board that have been reviewed lately and the provider says if your not going to give me a 10/10 then don't review.
What? That's bullshit. And the funny thing is, they get reviewed with 7/8/9's and then this type of behavior is mentioned, and the truth comes out about why they get 10/10's inderservigly so!
The truth will set you free, or save others $$$
How can you truly enjoy your time together if you are talking about "writing about" how much you enjoyed your time together. Seems a bit bizarre..surreal.
Reviews should be the great afterthought of a memorable time together, not the central theme to an encounter
Why would you even bring this subject up during what is supposed to be an hour of sexual fun between you and a woman? Do you really think you have anything to gain by this other than putting her on edge?
That being said...
If she has reviews you have every right to give her a new one. If she doesn't want to participate in TER and the review system she can ask to have her profile and her reviews taken down.
I hate reviews! But I also understand why they are important. I prefer intimate moments to be just that. Only between us. But I completely understand why reviews are necessary to know if the girl is who she says she is, her services, and overall attitude. I get it. I agree with the no number system. I actually did ask 2 gentlemen to not review me after our dates. Not because i was worried about scores. It was for privacy reasons and that's all. Now after reading this I feel like I shouldn't have asked them not to but I was doing it for their behalf,not mine.
not sure what they are trying to hide except bad service. I will not see a provider for 1000 and up that is not GFE for example. There are plenty of cute young women 18-24 that are gfe, reasonable and have a great attitude. Maybe the pricy non-reviewed providers do not want to compete with that? just sayin