So this has happened twice, this last one very recently..  I reviewed a lady that I met.. wrote a review, and gave a score of 9 appearance and 8 performance..    I also have a few weird fetishes and had mentioned them in the review.   I get a message awhile later from her and she is just pissed!   Claiming the review is fake as she hates the fetishes that I mentioned in the review and she would never do it.   However I have old messages of her claiming to love these things Prior to our meeting, plus we met and did these things that she says she never does!   Now I see it was just a show on her part to get the cash at the end.. whatever I get it!   I just prefer to see ladies that are actually into the things they say they are, and yes I have found them, but like everybody, I like variety!   She goes on to Say my scoring was basically bullshit and she will never see me again!  Which whatever there are plenty of others here etc...          So here is my questions!   Is a 9 appearance and 8 performance really that fucking bad?    We never even had sex during our meeting.. I thought an 8 was pretty fucking good!          So what have a took away from this?   If you see a lady and you think you want to see her again, either don't review her or just give her 10's??   WTF!  When is a 8 on performance bad?    OR am I missing something?

and if she won't see  you again, she's doing you a favor.

Crying about it may help you find inner peace but it does nothing to help the community.

but from what you described you didn't do anything wrong, appearance 9 is really high score.  As for 8 just on fetish (which she claim she didn't do) is pretty darn high too w/o FS.  I don't know what pissed her off, but if you're right on all counts, then the next client will probably be facing the samething.  Don't you want to warned us so that we won't go through the samething you been gone through?  Just my opinion, of course i would like to know who, and if you want you can send me a private msg here, but that's totally up to you.

If you don't want to piss off a provider, never score below her average(s). You also didn't mention if she provides FS or just massage and fetishes. FBSM girls who provide off-menu extras rarely want it sung to the world in a review. If this is the scenario, that's one other reason she's pissed. If she has no reviews and doesn't understand TER's system, that's another possible reason.

You're right an 8 is pretty fucking good 9 is even fucking better. Some providers are just spoiled rotten due to their seeing lapdogs most of the time.  

1) Have you ever heard of YMMV?  And of discretion?  You say you have some fetishes, which is fine.  What's NOT fine is you wrote about them in the review, so now you've created the following problem for her: either some guys will EXPECT her to do that for them OR other guys will be turned off she did those things for you.  Bottom line: if any girl goes beyond what other guys have written about her for you, you DON'T write about it.
2) You gave her scores that drove her average down. The new TER scoring system is doing that anyway, so why would you be surprised if she didn't like you adding to that.  If you scored her fairly, fine. But then don't be surprised if she doesn't like it.

If they ask me for a review, I tell them I don't have time to do them, and I NEVER use my TER handle to book a session, so providers and bookers don't know which one of their customers is CDL and wrote the review.  That allows me to be completely honest without worry of blowback from anyone who is pissed about what I wrote.  

I recently received a review that enthusiastically detailed some "kink" or "fetish" activities that the majority of TER readers probably find less than arousing.  Of course I enjoyed the review (and the reviewer - and the activities!) but I am also aware that it is probably more of a business killer than a business driver for me.  I would just ask you to consider this unintended effect - as well as the YMMV factor - when you are writing reviews of your more fetish-y sessions.  

I find that most of them are bullshit.  The scores are complete crap and I have been guilty of that as well.  

Great points. There is a local provider that I have been interested in seeing, but then she got a really graphic review a couple of months ago that featured watersports and some other kinks that don't interest me. Now I'm less interested in seeing her.

I think you hit the nail square on the head. To say that she is fulfilled your fetish desires is one thing. It presents her as fetish friendly, while leaving the fetishes indulged up to her discretion. By going into explicit detail about the fetish can have negative effects as Jake mentioned. Even if you had rated her a perfect 10 all the way around, it may have little to no impact on her anger towards your review. Your perfect 10 rating would mean little when prospective clients pass on contacting her based on the details of that review. TER is essentially the Yelp of providers. While one review may not discredit the bunch, it can make one reconsider their interest.  

I won't give a girl a 8 if she does not offer BBBJs more less no sex at all and she could roll out the red carpet, drink a gallon of champagne and piss all over me and I still would not give her a 8.

will get a point, too.  I didn't read the review, so don't know for sure if that is the reason.  The mods are pretty strict now about the scoring.  If it doesn't say in the review that you did it, then you can't score it, even if its on her profile/menu.  

The fetish part is pretty vanilla I think.  I have a huge foot fetish.. that's it.  I always ask the lady if they are into that sort of thing.   And yes I have had gals kindly reply no and I totally respect it!       In any light I guess I should be thankful as she messaged me this morning telling me she wasn't gonna blacklist me for my scoring since she was able to get the review removed!     I'm just shocked at what I thought was good is actually pissed her off beyond!     She told me to not contact her again.. which is easy.   I haven't.   But she still messages me bitching.    Wow!!!      Safe travels and happy scoring people!

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but a 10/10 is an amazing score especially if she participated in his 'most likely' disturbing fetishes with a smile on her face..

This happened to me too because I wouldn't give him extra time. Men are such children sometimes.