Would it be out of line to ask a provider not to talk during a session?

Don't get me wrong, I have had a great time with some providers and it included some nice conversation.  But the best communication I have found is physical. I love encounters in countries where I don't speak the language well.  There is no real chance for conversation.  I am not talking about silence here, after all some mutual verbal encouragement, excitement  and exclamation is a very fine thing.    

I had a girlfriend and got rid of her becasue she was a lot like a wife and wanted to talk all the time.  If  the "GFE" description that is so widely used describes that, no thanks.

Would it be too weird when making arrangements with a lady to ask her not to talk during our meeting?

As to your question, I don't think anything is too weird to ask for, unless it's gross (to most people), or unsafe.

Interesting.  Charlie Sheen said he paid them to leave afterward, you want to pay them to shut up during.  These are both aspects almost impossible to get with "free" partners.  Depending on what your needs are, Providers are sometimes the best way to go!

You could always put something in her mouth that would keep her busy!  LOL  =B-0

For a man who doesn't want conversation. Well I wouldn't have anything to do with them. Why you ask? It seems to primate for me and my intelligent men thinks so as well. I find it odd and quite humiliating for a classy woman of intellect. He is damaged beyond repair emotionally and I feel he needs help. I say no thanks to  men who requests women to be quiet the whole time but talking all the time is a bore as well. These types can also be dangerous as well if you do not know him in some ways. Communication is how people know what you want.He sounds like a guy that can be sure you can end up in a river. No thanks to very weird men.A definite GFE AND PROUD OF IT!
         
                  Mia of Westlake

Phew!  For a second there I thought your post was going to turn judgmental.

"He is damaged beyond repair emotionally..."
"These types can also be dangerous as well..."
"He sounds like a guy that can be sure you can end up in a river."

The anonyomous, no-words-spoken encounter is a widely held and very well documented fantasy for both men and women.  It consistently ranks near the top of the list in studies, and last I saw was higher on the list for women than men.

Once again, vilification.  "It doesn't fit within my preferences, and therefore must be evil in its purest, most refined form."  I simply don't understand why people, who otherwise appear to be intelligent and enlightened, feel it's appropriate to attach "the will of Lucifer" to any motivation they don't understand.

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I have to admit that I reacted in the same direction (although not as strongly, by any means) as miaofwestlake did to pilotpete's question. If pilotpete would ask providers not to talk during a session, he might get several similar reactions. If, on the other hand, he said "I have this fantasy..."

...I think it could be quite erotic!

I suppose I should be banished to a cannibalistic tribe....

I don't suppose you intern in a health clinic in seventhson's neck of the woods, do you?

What-EVER!

BJ, Palm Beach, FL
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Too much talk can ruin a session.But complete silence other than hello? I just love that pillow talk.I'm into this for the intimacy and affection as well as sex.I've always been baffled about the bim,bam,slam thank you mam mentality.You may as well stay home and do it yourself.
I disagree with Mia that a man is damaged emotionally,but she is right about not comunicating,it could be dangerous,especially to providers.Fantasy is one thing,reality is another.

In reply to men who do not communicate period do indeed have
emotional problems indeed and if anyone says it isn't so it is
slam dunk lie! It follows with the saying something isn't quite right with these types.A female figure in there life has  Emotionally damaged them....If they do not want to speak during a sexual session. They are not stable men nor do they have normal relationships with women.I have read and seen men for several years in this business and encounters some real strange birds. This is why I do this as little as possible and stay in the guidelines of normal men. Thanks for reading and carry on your normal everyday lives on The Erotic Review. Stay tuned for more later.P.S. WATERS IN WESTLAKE TASTES MIGHTY FINE! LOL

                   Mia of Westlake

I think it would be a strange request, and I'd probably delete it.  I delete everything even a little strange.

Of course, I'm not really a chatty Kathy during sessions unless brought on by clients asking lots and lots of questions.  I was always one to kiss a client coming into the door, through him on the bed, etc. etc.  I'm not there for love.  Just a good time.

I do let naughty things slip from my lips.  Not sure if I could stop that or not.

Longer sessions are a different story all together though.  I think people are looking for a personal connection and opening up is usually required.

Ok GUYS anyone wanting to take a dip with me in Westlake??Come on don't be bashful no one has ever lasted the energizer bunny. Any long lasting males out there? No One huh? Gee was in training for the next marathon.Well it is 12 midnight just warming up to pump more iron.
       
                  Kisses
             Mia of Westlake

and if I agree to see you, then your requests are my focus. Your time with me is all about your fantasy...I'm like the Genie in a lamp....But that's just me....